Very embarrassed,and really scared. MATURE PEOPLE ONLY?

Question

im 21 years old, and i have multiple "ball problems". first off, i have a large dark mole on my s*****m. ive had it since birth and it is .75 CM in diameter. i have a small bump on my left t******e, my right one feels like there is string floating inside of it. And they both irritate me periodically. one t******e is smaller than the other one. i have another mole, its on my p***s. this ones dark, but its alot smaller.this whole situation embarrasses me so much.it can be a major pride killer. of all the places in my body, why the h**l did it have to involve my manliness??!?! im going to the doctor this week, but id appreciate any advice you all might have. thanks.

Answer 1

As far as your gonads, have the doctor check them. The moles unless they are tumorous, I think you will have a hard time convincing a doctor they are a problem. I have a couple of moles too and every Doctor I have spoken to says the scars would look worse. Keep checking. Maybe You'll have better luck than I did.

Answer 2

sometimes its genetic, going to the doctor is the first step, but im an expert in health to an extent, and i have never heard of any std with those syptoms, and i sure would not like to speak bad of what std if it was an std it could be. ask yourself what have you been doing wrong. and pray pray pray

Answer 3

First off you should go threw with going to the doctors... Just to make sure everything is ok.

Second don't worry if you have a mole on your p***s...

My boyfriend has several and Ive counted them before... Its nothing to worry about if the person your having s*x with cares about you...

But if your scared of what people will think dont sleep around with whores that dont have any feelings.

Answer 4

Don't get hung up on your moles. They can be just about anywhere on the human body so it is all mainly randomness. Moles can be embarrassing but there is nothing we can really do about it (other than plastic surgery.) Anyways, some people find moles attractive so just think of them as a positive!

For one t******e being bigger than the other, that sounds very normal. Most men are like that and very rarely is there a man that has same sized testicles. That's all normal.

The lump you have sounds like it could be cancer or something like that. I suggest you go to your doctor, which you are!

So yeah, just don't be afraid to ask your doctor all of the questions that you just asked here. You should be fine!

Answer 5

my advice is to be open and honest w/ your dr. hopefully theres nothing wrong. and keep in mind, it doesn't matter what it looks like, only how you use it ;-)

Answer 6

haha no i'm not mature enough

Answer 7

chop it off

Answer 8

Discuss with the doc about getting the moles removed.  It will be uncomfortable to remove but from what I can guess, you won't care about that so much.  As far as sizing- its normal for them to be different sizes.  

Answer 9

You are going the right thing , go to the doctor and let him help you with this situation.

Answer 10

I'd just start dating a girl with bad eysight and get her to wear gloves when she handles you, that should solve the problem, don't let her find the string as she'll tie your shoelaces with it. LOL

Answer 11

It's hard for us to tell you anything because we're not doctors and we can't get a real look at the problem. But the best advice is to go to the doctor and listen to what he tells, cause it could be a number of things.

Answer 12

well i do know most guys have one t******e that is larger than the other. and ya definitely go have those checked out.

the moles or dark spots could be a skin cancer. but don't worry to much about those, only melanoma is a skin cancer to worry about. but you should have them removed.

i hope this helps. good luck!