Very embarrassing situation. Help me here.?

Question

Today I hung out with 5 of my friends, 3 girls, and 2 guys. I live in New York, so we hung out on Central Park, and we all drank alot of water that day, like literally 3 bottles because it was so hot that day. Then my friend decided that we should just hang out in W 50th ST on 8th Ave. So we all got the subway and we went and during that time, all of us had to pee so badly, we all thought we would p**s ourselves right there in the subway. And of course, there is absolutely no way am I using the subway bathrooms. So we reached our stop, and I think all of us are just about ready to pee ourselves, the urge was so bad that if we had tried to go to a bathroom in one of the stores, we wouldn't make it, so we spent like 5 minutes trying to find a private spot to pee in, and we did, we made it to where no one sees us, and you know, we told the guys to face the back wall so they don't see us and us girls only see their backs, Oh my god, I feel so disgusted, because before the guys even started to face back so they don't see us, I was already squatting with my pants down, and peeing really loudly, and creating a huge puddle, and I peed for about 3 minutes. My girlfriends are my closest friends so they peed right next to me, I don't care about them seeing my parts, but I care about the guys seeing my parts. How could I be so stupid!? I just simply couldn't hold it anymore, while they were talking, all my mind is into myself, saying I can't hold it anymore, I must pee, NOW, so out of my blind mind, I just popped a squat right in front of the guys before they faced back, I think they saw everything, and I think one of the guys got turned on by it. After all of us are done peeing, he even commented that I was the loudest pee'er here, and he said he could tell I had to go the hardest because my stream was wide, and that my puddle was the hugest, so now he's calling and emailing me now, telling me "hey baby, come to my house, so I can see you pee in my backyard, would you be my girlfriend?" things like that. What should I do now? And I also cried on my entire way home. Maybe I should just use public bathrooms for now on, no matter how dirty they are, should I?

Answer 1

I'd say you're better off using the bathrooms, no matter how dirty.  You ever heard of squatting?  

Answer 2

when you've got to go, you've got to go.

Think of it as some sort of perverted flattery if you like - he's turned on by a woman having a wee - very strange guy that one.  He's the one who should be embarrassed for being turned on by urine!

But it is silly to be so upset about something you can't help.  At least you didn't wet yourself - that would have been really embarrassing.  Just be glad you didn't get caught and fined for peeing in public (because that would have been worse than some guy getting all unecessary about it).

If he tries to tease you in front of anyone just make out that he's bizarre for teasing someone about something so natural as going for a wee - then he'll wish he'd kept his mouth shut.  He might be teasing you out of the three girls because you're the easiest to wind up, or he fancies you - either way, if you pretend you don't care, he'll give up on the teasing.

Answer 3

Don't stress over this. It's not the last time you're gonna pee outside. Get used to it.  

Answer 4

Thanks for sharing.

Answer 5

you did what you needed to do.  you really had to go and if that meant peeing in public, so be it.  if that wasn't possible and you had peed your pants instead, it happens.  in this case, good thing you didn't, if you peed that long, if you had peed your pants, you would've been soaked - and that would've been more embarrassing.

anyway, this dude's a jerk if he keeps calling and emailing you about this.  one time ok, but if you didn't express interest, he should've just backed off.  just ignore him.

Answer 6

Your friend is a perv! Don't worry about it too much. Just ignore him.  

Answer 7

Sounds like fun. Go out with him!  

Answer 8

Hey, when one's gotta go, one's gotta go. So if you had no other choice, don't worry about it. It's done.

As for this JERK, getting turned on was one thing - I would have got turned on too probably. But to then chase you like that just shows poor behavior on his part. He doesn't know how to behave with girls. So tell him to lay off and move on. Keep your distance from him next time if you must go in the same group again.

Answer 9

Guys have peeing competitions among themselves so I wouldn't think too much about it. Just brush it off next time he says something.

Answer 10

hahaah awh im sorry about that, it was a funny story, but hey its over and you just have to get over it! He's being immature and you should flaunt it not be embarassed if he says you have a huge flow or whatever. If you had to go, you had to go, you wouldn't want your bladder to explode or anything.

Yeah public bathrooms are gross but as long as you wipe the seat to make sure there aren't any liquids on it, then you're good!

haha oh yeah and i love that term "popped a squat"

made me laugh my pants off,

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