Very lonley and sad???!!! help

Question

i have like no friends and try really hard i am such a nice person and just stepped on by everyone everyone turns out to be mean. My parents just say try harder and i am lonley and sad all the time. i haven't seen like anyone this whole summer i am just really sad and angry all the time. any advice?

Answer 1

Maybe try taking up a new hobby to take up your time. You should keep your mind occupied and not focus on friends and depression. You will make many friends throughtout your life as you get older and enter into the real world. You will meet people who will enjoy having a good decent person around to have fun with. Maybe you can get into some type of sport or dance lessons to meet others. Try not to focus on being sad or depressed and try to be patient. Things will change but you have to be patient sweetie.  

Answer 2

aweeeeee....well, I think we have all felt like that at sometime or another.  I think summer vacation is the worst time for some young people, as during the year you are more active and have a schedule, but in the summer you have a lot of alone time...and you tend to reflect on how much time you spend alone.

There will be times when you have lots of friends, sometimes when you only have a few, and sometimes when the only friend you have might be a family member.  And that is ok.  During those times, try volunteering at the local animal shelter or a hospital.   Join a club or class to learn a craft or a skill.  Fill your time until someone comes along.  Keep busy.

Like I said, we have all been there...hmmm any pets?  Might be a good time to look at the pet situation.

Answer 3

just calm down and remember the great traits about yourself. it will get better. you just have to have a little faith.  

Answer 4

I used to experience isolation and feel ostracized, the key to making friends is being yourself. If you feel confident, don't act like a douche (and you said you were nice, so you don't have to worry about that), and let people know that you want to meet them, it goes a long way. Smile in public, tell people hello before they say it to you, call people to just to talk, and you might notice people will want you in their company. Usually what happens is what is called the self fulfilling prophecy, in that you think that everyone is going to hate you, therefore, they do exactly what you think. If you tell yourself everyone will like you, you might notice some serious results. I know how much it sucks to feel like nobody cares about you, but people might just think you don't want to be bothered, so try to make yourself easier to approach.

Answer 5

hey whn ur questioning in Mental helth section..thn u might b knowing tat its simply ur feeling...Ur nt gona feel same if u belive in urself...

it happens to all sumtimes...

I advice ...dn't repeatedly say tat...

n u know... a person walking alone on road, whn meets trouble... they r only strangers those who *** to help....

real frndship nva gona b loud...

ur frnd cann't *** to help u out... although strangers 'll do... its life...feel everyone urs...[:)]

last I ask u to feel warm luv&care in n around ur mom n dad.... I feel da same... :)

Answer 6

It is important to remember that life is filled with these types of emotional struggles, and that you are not the first, nor the last, person to have ever felt alone, depressed, angry, sad, or unhappy.  

In life, it is important to learn from other peoples' challenges and struggles.  Spend some time reading about some of the great people in history who have felt the same way, and read and understand how they overcame such personal obstacles in their lives.  

There are retirement homes filled with old people who have no one to talk to all day - - they simply sit and stare at the walls, as if no one cares about them at all.  What a wonderful opportunity to learn about the lives of the elders in one's community, while at the same time helping one's self overcome temporary negative emotions.

Answer 7

i'll be your friend.  

Answer 8

well almost everyone goes through that stage it just matters how long a person goes through it i think you should start by asking someone over and call them and or get there email or aim , save some money and go on a shopping little spree to up your look

Answer 9

I'm 28 and dealing with the same thing.

Try and find out what hobbies you like and see if there are any groups that meet together for that purpose.

I have a dog (a pug) and in my city pug meet ups happen once a month.  It's when everyone brings their dog and just sit around talking about stuff that our dogs do etc.

Answer 10

dont give up. i know what it feels like.