Very mean EX friend- convo included?

Question

She always was a little ****** to me and she told me she doesnt like who i am. i got fed up with her i just told her " Who dont have to bully me to bring urself up" she then blew up and said i was an antisocial freak who would have no friends for 4 years and i should go to a L*****n school. she also goes "i dont even know how u got into this school" (u had to test)! she called me a dumb.*** for on my away message saying "talking with sam and cate- not to sam and cate. she called me a huge loner and stuff.i am so mad at her, do i not have a right to be mad? please give me your imput on the situation.

Answer 1

You absolutely have the right to be mad.  But if you reaaaallly want to get her back, don't be mad.  I know it sounds nuts but people like her thrive off hurting others.  Don't let her know she's upset you at all and she'll probably move on to an easier target.  Just remember you know yourself better than anyone, just because she has zero social skills it doesn't mean you have to believe anything she says about you!

Hang in there!  I'd be willing to bet that you aren't the only person that's mad at her right now.