Very urgent...i really need the perfect answer

Question

please i really really need help(its about my bf's secret)

i love him with all my heart and i still accept him about his past..but here's the problem..no one knows his secret,even his brothers or his parent's,they dint even know about it.he has a daughter from his past,he con fest it to me,2 weeks ago...and it was a total shock!...again here's the problem,the girl from his past,she wanna took advantage from him,she uses the child to get her attention.she uses the child to let him see her,.she's always threaten my bf that if he's not gonna be able to see her,shes gonna spread the news to my bf's family,that he has a child from her...and about my bf's situation,, he dont know what to do,he dont even love this girl anymore,bec she has a child again from another guy(what a s**t!)and my bf only cares about their child,not her!...she keep on blackmailing him.is there any suggestion about his situation?is there any advice that i can say to my bf?i really love him and i dont wanna loose him...please help.any answers can help!...

Answer 1

You should tell your bf to stop blackmailing you. You can tell him that it is no good and the lord will be angry to him. If you really love her, then you should correct the mistakes that he had made.

Answer 2

Get him to tell his family, if they love him, which im sure they do, they will understand and accept this. Perhaps even delighted to be grandparents.

This will remove this woman's blackmailing chip and prevent you and your bf from being affected by her!!

I hope it all sorts out, this woman seems too much like my step dads old wife. we did the same and it all worked out great!!

Answer 3

Hon, so sorry to break it to you, but you are in the wrong section. Try relationships section.

Answer 4

See a solicitor and begin proceedings to get visiting rights and have a paternity test.

Answer 5

maybe you can both see the girl

you can go with him and rub it in the s***s face how happy you are =]

the little girl really shouldnt have to suffer just because her mum is a s**t

Answer 6

Tell his parents.

Educate the s**t.

Answer 7

What class is THIS for??!?