Very weird dream, can anyone explain ?

Question

I dreamt i was in some place for a holiday and when i came back i saw my crush's brother. In my dreams he always looks miserable, tired, worn out for some reason. Anyway i saw him walking by with his shirt open and looking really sweaty and tired. I went over to say hi and all of a sudden i find him to be my boyfriend? We show some affection and then in my dream it tells me that he doesn't know what to do about his life, as a job and everything, but he loves me unconditionally. I don't get it. In real life, he has so many friends, and he doesn't seem to be having such a problem. What could it mean? My crush is his twin also. But in my dream i felt it was his brother. My crush is lonely but he has a job and he's very rich. My crush has a gf now, but his brother is single.

Answer 1

If these guys are twins, could it be that you are attracted to their looks and not necessarily the one's personality? There's not a problem with that as it seems that maybe you could fall for the other one as well and it's OK to be attracted to people right off the bat based on how they look. Everybody does that.

The guy - the noncrush one - may have a lot of friends but that doesn't mean he's happy. You can be very lonely amongst a crowd of people and it could even be that he knows you like his brother and he likes you and he doesn't know how to approach that situation. It's just the same as the one you're crushing on being lonely even with a job and money. Sometimes people can have everything you or they think will make them happy but they're not so.

Maybe you should try talking with the brother - the noncrush one - and becoming friends first. You're already basically friends with them anyway right? So why not get to know him more and maybe he will turn out to be better for you than the one you're crushing on is. Even being twins, their personalities could be completely different and you may find that you get along with the noncrush one better than you would with the other.

It also sounds like maybe you're trying to tell yourself to not crush so much on the one twin since he has a girlfriend. I've done that before. Disassociation. You place your affections on someone else to get over the crush. A lot of people do that.

Pay attention to everything that goes on between you and both of the guys and moods, attitudes, glances, anything, even your own. Your subconscious could be telling you something!

Answer 2

Your situation is complex, with twin brothers, and it looks like they both have appeal to you. You aren't inclined to deal with your bf's gf, and as I see it, you will transfer your affections to his brother with few regrets.

Just now you are still deciding, so your choices alternate in your dream.