Virginity... what do you believe?

Question

[1.] do you think you've lost when you've had s*x [rape.. choice.. ect.]

or...

[2.] do you believe you lose it when you chose to have s*x?

[curious]

Answer 1

when you have any form of s*x you are no longer a virgin.

though no one chooses to be raped, you cannot call yourself a virgin after that. now if you go into moral purity arguments I believe you loose your moral purity after you choose to have any form of s*x. in the case of rape you still have your purity.

s*x before or outside of marriage is WRONG EVERY TIME!

Answer 2

I believe you lose it when you choose it, not when you're raped. That's ridiculous, because it's not your fault.

Answer 3

well i think you lose it when it's your choice, as in you weren't pressured. If you were raped i wouldn't consider it losing your virginity

Answer 4

i don't rape is actually losing it; i believe you've lost it when you've chosen to have s*x

Answer 5

you lose it when you do s*x whether you like it or not

Answer 6

If you want to get technical, you're not physically a virgin if you're raped. But I believe, emotionally, you lose it when you choose to.

Answer 7

Well you lose it when you have s*x.If it was your choice or not. And these days...no one cares about losing their virginity anymore.

Answer 8

Virginity is both a technical term and a state of mind.  Technically -- if the p***s goes in, you are not longer technically a virgin.

However, I don't believe that there is ANYONE who would sneer at a girl for not being a virgin if she lost it as a result of rape (and not the kind of date rape where she changes her mind later!)  If she continues to conduct her relationships as if she were still a virgin, then as far as I'm concerned, she's virginal -- if not technically a virgin.  

Answer 9

to be technical you lose your virginity the moment penetration happens. But i dont believe that if you were raped you should consider that losing your virginity. You can still give your consentual virginity to someone you love.  

Answer 10

I believe to lose it you of to choose to.  I really don't think rape counts.  I also believe that your virginity should be saved until marriage.  I believe that s*x is only to be had within a marriage.

Answer 11

1]technically you lose your virginity at any given point that youve had sexual intercorse. but it not rite to consider your not a virgin anymore jus cuz you were raped.

2]yes

Answer 12

I believe that to lose your virginity it has to be consensual. Nobody chooses to be raped.  

Answer 13

to be a virgin means that no man has penetrated your hyman. whether you chose to have to s*x or not when the hyman has been broken then you have lost your virginity. that's just the basic facts and no emotion involved. read up on other cultures and you will find that fathers get more for their daughters when they are virgins.

Answer 14

Physically happens when you have s*x, but as far as I'm concerned it only counts if it was consensual. No one can take it, you give it.

Answer 15

you loose you virginity the first time you have sexual intercourse, whether you wanted it to happen or not.

Answer 16

If I was raped I would still count myself as a virgin even though, technically, I wouldn't be one.

So I think you loose it when you chose to have s*x.

Answer 17

When your rape you didn't' give it up willing so I say that you didn't lose your virginity but off course if you give it up ur self you have lost it

Answer 18

i totally agree with somebody...

you dont have virginity stolen you give it away

i believe that you lose your virginity when you want to and the other person wants to rape doesnt count you cant help it

Answer 19

Virginity is something you lose when you have s*x, consensual or not.

Just because it wasn't consensual doesn't mean it didn't happen.

A virgin is someone who hasn't had s*x, if you are raped you had s*x.

It is that cut and dry.

People tell rape victims they are still virgins to make them feel better but they are just lying to them.

Its a horrible thing to be raped but if someone ask you if you are or not and you were raped then just tell them that and people will understand.

Answer 20

1. No, I don't think rape is actually losing it, well technically it is but I don't feel like the victim gets anything out of it so it really shouldn't count.

2. Yes.

Answer 21

i believe you lose your virginity when you chose to have s*x.

Answer 22

I believe you only lose it when you have consensual s*x. I don't think you lose it when you have been raped because you didn't want it to happen. I also belive you don't lose it when you use tampons.

Answer 23

I believe virginity is something you FREELY GIVE to someone you love and respect and who loves and respects you back, so no i do not believe someone who is raped is no longer a virgin.

There is no respect in such a situation.

Virginity should be treated as a gift and a rapist is not worthy of such a gift so it does not count.

Answer 24

number 2. you lose it when you chose to and it wasnt forced. whether you regret it or not

the only time i dont count it losing your virginity is when its rape