Virgo and gemini, bad relationship but good bed compability?

Question

my ex is gemini and im virgo. we really love to talk all day long if we could as friends and get along just great, but once when we get back together (twice already), we end up figthing and break up again. so we decided to be friends, even thought he says he loves me and that im the only girl who he feels complete with. we argued because he does not take life seriously, he thinks life its a joke and its not responsible enough, am the hard working one and have to do everything that deals withe the real life. also he is flirty (but has never cheated on me), this makes me mad, because im jeoulous and flirting is not on my list.

he says im very passionate and he is too (in bed that is), he even mentioned that he wants to marry me, but how can we get along so well when we are friends, but not as a couple in the communication part, while the s*x part is more than great?

why cant virgo and geminis get along as a couple, but can have a great friendship?

do virgos and gemini usually are very compatible and passionate in bed? what do you know about this?

thanx!

Answer 1

well I'm a Virgo too and I had a confusing relationship with a Gemini...

it's the twins in them..

we could talk for HOURS, and i was always attracted to the witty side of the Gemini but once the conversations were over I got a Jekyll/Hyde effect (the twins)

We also did the break up and back together thing.. SEVERAL times..

Naturally Gemini's and Virgo's challenge each other

Both are ruled by the planet Mercury (Communication)

which is why the nights of talking and jokes can go on for HOURS, but Gemini is an Air sign..

Very indecisive (2 indecisive ones at that) and flirty, they love to communicate with other people and be very social, also they tend to just go about stimulating their mind with whatever pops in their head at any given moment.

All of which are very unsettling to ANY Virgo, who appreciates stability and are borderline control freaks, yikes!

I'm sure you and your Gemini will always have an understanding of the other to some extent, the relationship will definitely be a challenge, and so will the friendship..

but who knows, maybe you have a lot of fire in your chart, your Gemini might feed certain parts of your chart and you guys might end up getting along great.

you should take a deeper look into each others charts.

look to his and your 5th and 7th house to see how you take dating and serious relationships in stride..

I don't know if this is a homo or heterosexual relationship but

if you're going to be doing a love compatibility look to his Venus and Moon, (these rule attraction in males)

look the Sun and Mars (these rule attraction in females)

Wish you the best of luck!

hope i was able to answer your question.

:-)

Answer 2

Geminis and virgos are both ruled by mercury (that is, until Vulcan is discovered) which makes them both very prone to communication.  Normally communication in a relationship is a good thing, but with you two (I speak from personal experience here) there are two different styles of communication, as well as two different takes on life and two different value systems.  

Virgos tend to be less about pretty language and more about being efficient and concise (read: blunt) when it comes to communicating, whereas Geminis are a lot of words, but often not much substance.  Geminis tend to be more fly-by-the-seat-of-their-pants and don't take little things too seriously and virgos are more concerned with results, having a life that has meaning, than enjoying life and observing it.

But gemini can help virgo relax and virgo can help gemini focus his energies.  It can work, it just takes work.

This is simply the way things are going to be for you two.  Yes, the bed side of things will be amazing, but a relationship needs more than that to sustain itself.  DON'T LET THE s*x s***w WITH YOUR HEAD (pun not intended.)  You two have two different lifestyles, if you've already had this many problems I urge you against getting in deeper, and I hope even more so that you don't pursue the subject of marriage.

It doesn't take an astrologer to see that two trains going in the same direction at the same speeds but with different destinations won't get away unscathed when their paths cross.