Visitation with my daughter?

Question

My ex is not allowing me to visit my daughter per court order because i am behind in child support. Daughter is 14 yrs old and she even believes because her mother told her " you cant see me to you catch up" breaks my heart. I just filed a AMONISH ORDER and court date is in October...what can id o now?

Answer 1

Try paying your child support.What do you think your daughter is eating, wearing, etc.?? She's wrong, of course, but your child can't be cared for by good intentions.

Answer 2

Legally she can't withhold visitation because you are behind in support payments.  When you are in court also charge her with "alienation of affection".  You should start mailing your daughter $50 a week as an allowance.  That will really tick off her mom!

Answer 3

If you have a court order bring the cops with you when it's your visitation weekend.  She can't not allow you to visit with them because you're behind on support.  She is in violation of a court order, you may want to contact an attorney for more advice.  SOmetimes they will give it to you for free.

Answer 4

No - it is against the law for her to do this. She is violating a visitation decree.,..

Document everything and contact the courts right away to file charges against her.

Buy a digital phone recorder and USE it.

If you have a decree - you can contact the local constable's office to escort you over there (at the beginning of  your designated visiting time)  - Just make sure that you have the decree WITH you to prove that she is VIOLATING A court order.

If you are denied - file a report to prove to the judge.

Shame on these women.

I hope you get caught up on your support but failure to pay DOES NOT give her this right to play God.

Good luck.

Answer 5

make a plan (write it out, make it really official and legit--and mean it.) outlining how you are going to catch up on child support. include your income, your timetable, your budget, and make sure it's evident that you put quite a lot of time into it. present it to your ex, and assure them both you really want to help out. once they see you're making some progress and seem to legitimately want to catch up, and have a plan, they will be more likely to let you see her sooner.