Vived dream what could it mean?

Question

I found out I was pregnant and then found out I was having a baby, and I had a baby girl and I called her something beginning with D. I don’t remember the name, but it was an unusual name. I think it may have being Dora, Isadora. But I’m not sure.

And she grew up to be around two, and Alex was six, and we went on a holiday to Sydney, and we stayed at a hotel. And there were these two women, one old and one young (mother and daughter) and they were Russian and they were tisk tisking at me and I called them obscene names in front of my kids because they were just pissing me off so much. And then I found out I was going on a trip, which I seemed to have known all along. I was going overseas on a school trip, and I went to the airport after a lot of preparation with my friends. And it was an hour before the plane flight, and I realised I didn’t bring my passports with me, as they were back home in my room, which was really messy, and they were in a black folder that I used to keep al

Answer 1

This dream is SO long and detailed.  That is good, but a lot of times, it is hard to sort it all out at first.  So, let me share my thoughts, major themes, etc. that I see.  This may give you further insight and bring other points of the dream into focus.

At first. a lot of the action seems to focus on the relationships of women.  Consider if these interactions are in any way similar to your relationships with women that you know, who are important or very present in your life.

The baby could represent you entering a new stage in your life, a new project, a new goal, a new lease on life, or a "new birth" for you in some area.  Whatever this is, you value it and want to protect it.  Going on a trip relates to your "journey in life".  The fact that is overseas sounds like a big change in your life.  The fact that it is a school trip might indicate it is a learning experience.  The fact that you are going by air MIGHT represent that it is mentally or spiritually enlightening, or that might just be that it is the logical way to cross the ocean in 2008!    Also, the fact that it is a school trip might indicate that this is a group experience or that it is a journey that involves some organization in your life (like school, church, community, etc.)

So, consider:  in what aspects of your life are you experiencing change, growth, and learning.  Is this experience with a group?  Your family?  Co-workers?  Are there areas of conflict where some of them (maybe "forein" to you in some way, attack or criticize your dream, your goal, your plan, your project (your baby).

As you work to progress, you keep running into problems.  Maybe related to legal issues or documents or paperwork.  The time it takes to get these documents or approvals in order almost causes you to miss out on this opportunity altogether!

Then, on board, the men are behaving inappropriately toward the women.  Here you are, with a "baby" (whatever that represents) to care for, a goal to reach, a responsibility to deal with, and you are dealing with sexism or aggression because you are a woman!  (Sound familiar?)

And all this, so far, has been transitional!  When you actually reach your destination (new job?  new assignment? new community) you find the situation is even worse!  The mean are not only allowed to be rude to the women or make advances toward them, it is actually customary to take terrible advantage of them, treating them as open game, prostitutes or slaves.  Has this been your experience in some situation?  Women being treated as inferior, their status being only to meet the demands of men? This sounds like a lot of work environments, where women, even those in professional roles, are expected to submit and defer to the men, fetch their coffee and play "nice" no matter how badly the men behave.  

On an island, you are removed from society as a whole, so it is more likely abuses could occur and the rest of the world not be aware of it.  So, on the island, there is not much accountability.    This is often true of outposts of any sort... branch offices, areas where supervisors or those with authority are not often around, so the "resident tyrants" rise up in a reign of terror.

You try to hide, "lay low", not draw attention to yourself and cultivate relationships with men who will treat you with respect and even offer some protection from the predators.  He has a "girlfriend" who is "pregnant" and hiding it.  She is about to "birth something" new and if the tyrants find out, things will not go well. This may be a joint dream or project between two people.  They nourish this "baby" out of sight so that it can grow to maturity before it is revealed to the scrutiny and attack of the tyrants.

What the men do to the women in this dream is awful, but how the women treat each other is just as bad!  Some of the women don't seem to mind being subservient and open prey for the men  But when a woman has some self respect or wants to be productive in some way that is not directly supporting the tyrants, they try to bully her into giving it up!  The ladies' room is the private "conclave" for women where no male is privy to what is said.  In this vulnerable environment, they attack this woman and try to force her to abort her baby, give up her dream, throw away all her hard work.  Creepy!

Finally, someone "rescues" you and offers you his special protection.  Who has done that for you in a very negative, predatory environment?

Are you also the pregnant girlfriend?  Notice, at the beginning you are, and then again, here is someone "pregnant with something".  

It sounds as if you are going through a VERY frustrating time, in a horrible environment.  Pray for wisdom.  Get your affairs in order so that you may take advantage of any decent opportunity that comes along, unless this person who rescues you proves to be a solid solution.  It is hard to imagine this working as a permanent solution, but you are better acquainted with your circumstances than I.

God bless you and give you peace!

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