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Question

do you think popular people/girls are bi*tches? i hate how people think that. it almost makes me cry sometimes because sometimes, people dont even give me chance to be nice. they just automatically say im a ***** if they aren't in the "crew" as they think we call it. how can i make it so that i get a chance to be myself and not a bi*ch??

Answer 1

to be honest, really depends on your definition of popular

Answer 2

Ya  they try to act so cool and you just want to kick their AZZ

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Answer 3

I think people just say those things to feel better about them selves. Now I don't know you or your friends but I would say just don't do things that may seem b*tchy. If you take the time to talk with these other girls and let them see the real you I'm sure they'll warm up to you. If they get to know you better they'll realize that your not b*tchy and just real like them.

Answer 4

haha i always say im not a ***** im THE *****......but dont use my line *****

Answer 5

A Smile Is Worth A Thousand Words

Answer 6

talk to people who arent in your crew.. im friends with "popular" people and emo people. i dont have birthday parties. lol. cause of it but i like it that way because i have such a great variety of friends and a lot of people know me.

Answer 7

be blatantly nice to someone that people would expect you to be mean to

take the upper hand in the situation and engage the convo or whatever, don't wait for them to start it

Answer 8

No, exactly not

Answer 9

Any girl in my school went I went to high school, that was considered "popular" was definitely a *****

Answer 10

at some schools the "popular" people are brats but at others popular just means well liked.  if you don't think of yourself as popular and just go up to anyone and start talking to them then i don't think anyone will think of you as just another popular brat.

Answer 11

by finding real friends

why  you are pop is because guy talk about  certain girls that do stuff and want a go at yah

and if you hang around girls like that guys asume your like that and then other girls get jealous because guys are paying more attention to you or some girls dont like to hang with girls that have s**t written all over them

just be yourself and tell off those anoying b*****s

Answer 12

i had the same problem for all of middle school. and when i started high school i realized that the people you hang out with arent always the way you are but it looks that was from the outside. its like how people serotype African-American people to be hood talking drugdealers, when that is DEFINETLY not true. Or even all asians to be smart. not true either. i tried EVERYTHING and still people sterotyped me as the mean girl becuase of what my friends did. so i started hanging out with other people (and my regular friends too) and gradually learned that being in the "popular" crew is not the only route through school. i started look at them much differently (because i was hanging out with much nicer people) and now i'm not even friends with them anymore and am so glad. im still really popular but im viewd as a nice popular girl. i was voted student body president even ! so just look at your friends and ask your self "is this how i want to be viewed? and if your okay with that then to h**l with them. who cares what people think. because sometimes people can be wrong. i hope i helped you :) i know it can be really really tough hang in there.

Answer 13

start talking to people out of your friends circle, btw most "popular" people are a holes at least from like jr high to collage what you should do is talk to people that aren't classified as popular i dont know how to really tell you how to talk to people in different "groups", cause for me I really dont have a designated "group" and I have friends that are potheads, Jocks, s***s, hicks, nerds, popular girls, punks, and wiggers. every group has people that are a holes so i only talk to the nice kids from every group, and most people like me I just act like me, it works for me cause im a libertarian i dont classify people by the group they belong to but who they are. So expand the area of people you talk to and you will be more excepted.

Answer 14

no, popular girls are not bi*ches. only alot of times being popular makes them stuck up and THEN they're a bi*ch. dont worry about it, the people are totallyyyy jealous! just ignore it and be yourself, and then eventually they'll see the real you. they're just judgmental! [trust me, im a popular "bi*ch" too. but im not even a bi*ch. hahhaah] :)

good luck! :)

Answer 15

I was unpopular in middle school and popular in high school.  I knew what it was like to be picked on or looked down on by the popular people and yet I became one and put others down!  I didn't enjoy it, but my friends made me feel like I had to join in when they were taunting a friendless girl....I just wanted to fit in.  Eventually, I apologized to all the girls I hurt in high school.  If your "crew" is mean....then you will be perceived as mean too.  Guilty by association....pick your friends carefully!!!!

Answer 16

4: commonly liked or approved <a very popular girl>

Thats the definition of popular. Dont worry about those people that call you names. If they do that, you dont want to be their friend anyways. If you have close friends and other friends, you seriously have nothing to worry about. The people that give you a chance know that your not a bi*ch and accept you for who you are.