[WAITRESS Q.] Your a waitress and your gonna get called "darling" "love" "babe" etc?

Question

so whats the big problem....?

Answer 1

It's disrespectful. A complete stranger shouldn't be using terms of endearment on a waitress they've never even met before. That's common courtesy, something there's a serious lack of in the world today.

Answer 2

Well perhaps the waitress in strip clubs don't care for it either so I apologize to them ~ this just seems more of a place where it would be okay since it is all about attention towards one another

Sorry

Still rude and I especially can't stand when a caller says Sweetie Blah Blah Blah ~ you don't know me nor do you know what I look like leave it at the house for your loved ones

Answer 3

Frankly if my name was darling, love or babe I wouldn't have have a problem with it at all in fact, it would be perfectly acceptable. But since it's not than I don't expect to be called such.

Have you ever thought that there's a reason why a waitress say, "Hello my name is___________"

Answer 4

i'm not your woman. after you give me a huge tip maybe you can call me babe, darling, or love.

Answer 5

Depends on the kind of restaurant and country that you're in. For example there's probably nothing wrong with if in a diner or a truck stop.