WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT THIS ?

Question

SOMETIMES MY FRIENDS PICKS ON ME AND CALLS ME

BAD AWFUL NAMES HOW CAN I STOP THEM

I FELL LIKE THE INTERNET IS THE ONLY PLACE

WHERE I CAN REACH OUT

BUT WANT TO HAVE FRIENDS THAT I CAN LIKE

WHAT TO DO ?

Answer 1

they dont really sound like friends...i would find other friends that are nicer...

Answer 2

If your friends pick on you and call you awful names, they are not your friend, and you are stupid to think they are. I'm sorry if that offends you but you defiantly need to meet new people and get yourself out there to find new friends. If these "friends" continue just forget about them and ignore it.

Answer 3

They are not your friends!!  I don't know hold old you are, but you have to start now on working on your strength, mentally and physically.  It's a tough world and it's tough to be alone, but it is more tough to be around people who don't appreciate you.  Stop hanging around people who beat your self esteem down.  If you can, start getting into martial arts, not to just kick ***, but to empower yourself.  That's what life is about, finding ways to empower yourself and become a great human being, so that when you are gone, the world can honestly say it misses you.  Good luck, I've been there too and I know how tough it is, but I am really confident now because I stopped hanging out with those types of people and started liking myself.....I am sure you can too!

Answer 4

you can either,

1. Call Him Names Back

2. End your friendship.

3. Talk to Him About it.

4. Make New Friends without telling him and than always blow him off.

5. Never talk to Him Again.

6. Just ignore it.

7. Talk to his parents (awkward)

its your decison buddy... make it now!

Answer 5

stand up to him and be like "yo home slice, what's the deal here!" if he doesn't like your tone or whatever just simply walk away.

Answer 6

TURN OFF CAPS EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE? I THINK IT WOULD HELP.

Obviously if they are calling you names and you have asked them to stop, making sure they know that it offends you , and they  still don't stop, then obviously they aren't really your friends..

Other than that, you haven't really given enough information to go apon, so I can't really give you any more advice..

Answer 7

if you'd really like some advice, you are free to email me and i can help you out :D

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Answer 8

JUST TELL THEM , WHAT EVER THEY TELLYOU ,,YOU TELL THEM IT TAKE SOMEONE TO KNOW ONE!!

Answer 9

Get new friends?

No point hanging around with Tw'ts

Answer 10

If they are that nasty to you, they aren't real friends.  Are there other kids your age whom you can make friends with?  Are you involved in any extra-curricular activities at school?  Do you belong to any organizations outside school?  What about at your place of worship?  Can you reach out to anyone in any of these places and find things you have in common?  Then you can cool it with the so-called friends who say such mean things to you.  (Don't TELL them you're cooling it with them--just fade away.  When they realize that they haven't seen much of you lately, they may come to appreciate you more.  But don't hold your breath over it.)

Answer 11

that is not a friend if they pick on you and call you names honey. you need to learn who your friend are and who your friends are not

Answer 12

You need to broaden your social circle, they are not your friends!

Perhaps you should tell someone about the names you are being called, like their parents!

Get out and about more, away from the usual crowd, smile nicely to attract the people that appeal to you.

Answer 13

Is it just me, or is this a wind-up?

Answer 14

1. turn the attention back at them. pick on someone else in the group. this isn't nice, but it does help you!

2. learn to suck it up, and ignore it (not the best way to go..)

3. realize that they aren't your type of people, and find better friends. this is something that ends up happening in high school or college. till then, good luck.

life lesson: there are really mean people out there. a lot of them will put you down to make you feel better. if you're always nice to them, doing what they tell you to, and letting them treat you like poo, you won't EVER be their friend. that's what they call a "minion"

Answer 15

Sounds like its time for you to get some new friends.  True friends don't go out of their way to hurt you.  Don't take bad treatment from anyone.

Answer 16

Time to find a new friend.

Answer 17

Your friends calls you terrible awful things? So your friends calls you terrible awful things?

Listen to the sentence now: Your friends calls you terrible awful things.

There is only one word wrong in this entire sentence. And I think you know what that word is.

"Friends"

Sweetie, if their calling you names, bad names, then why is you calling them your friend?

They're not your friend. Friends don't call friends bad names in a bad way. Friends don't hurt friends.

This sounds like you're trying to fit into a certain crew, but that certain crew is bringing you down.

Leave that crew alone. They're not your friends. They're not even real. Out of that whole group of people you call your "friends", you sound like the most real person of that group. The rest are fake.

This kind of bother me because I don't like when people pick on others. Throughout my school years, I saw many kids get picked on for no apperent reason. I don't like that and never will. I stand up for them kids. I don't let that kind of stuff happen before my eyes. I do something about it. (and yes it included fights).

Drop that crew of friends you have. Its not worth it for you to change yourself on the count of them. Get some positive friends in your life. Get out of the bad crew of people. They'll do nothing but bring down your self esteem and make you feel bad.

Yes, I love this website too. At least I'm not the only one who seems to find comfort on the computer. You can meet alot of cool and positive influence people here.

Additional Details: I'm quite a bit worried about you! I just read your comment for the best answer you gave me, and I am not happy at all. Yes, its nice to have the extra points. Sweet, but that is not the case here. I'm very worried about you.

You're getting physically abused by your so called friends?

This is terrible. I only thought you was getting called some bad names by them, but this physical stuff is serious!

Someone needs to step in this problem before someone gets hurts and its too late.

You really need to talk to some people you know around your community you're very comfortable with. This internet is not going to do you any good. You need some real actions happening instead of just sitting here listening to a bunch of words.

Something needs to get done. I'm serious! They pushed you in the ground, ripped your shirt off and you broke your glasses? Are you going to let them get away with this? Do something about this! Don't let them do this stuff to you.

Grab a counselor, a parent, a brother, a sister, any family relative even go to church and listen to a preacher, call the cops, press charges and if possible and you're still a youngin', then try to convince your Gaurdian or parent to pack up and move far away...etc....

But do something!! This stuff you're posting on this computer, doesn't sound like a playful joke, just to be played upon.