WHAT CAN I DO TO STOP BEING SO STRESSED OUT!

Question

i always have problems with my mother! we live with her boyfriend, she cheated on my father with him and they got devorced we move from orlando to tampa and now my life keeps going down they drain! she annoys me so much! i cant watch tv as much as i used to i cant be on the computer and she wont let me go out as much, im 15, shes always thinking i have some kind of boyfriend, never lets me talk on the phone for long and i hate her stupid boyfriend. all he does is watch tv and thats it hes not social at all and i have gotten so frustrated! i hate all of them! and i dont want to move in with my dad because hes never home! I HATE HER SO MUCH SOMETIMES i just want life to be how it was i dont know what to do to bond with her, oh and she always tells everyone how bad of a daughter i am and yeah ok i can be pretty mean sometimes but what she doesnt know is that i act like that because she annoys me so much!!

Answer 1

it is hard to change something you were used to . and at your age it is gonna be hard for you to accept another man . yo ujust have to realize as long as you live with parents you have to follow there rules . i know you don't like that .. but maybe start reading or walking . find something you like to do . where you arent having to argue with her . and she is just worried about you having boyfriends and all cause she luvs you and knows what she has gone thru . she shouldnt down you though that isnt good , maybe you can make special time for just you and her once a week or something  .  

Answer 2

im goin through da same exact thing but ma mom is  married to him. Really all you can do is wait until your 18 and move out. For the meanwhile breathe and try to stay sane.

Answer 3

Stop stressing over these things. The universe doesn't revolve around you. And whether you know it or not but chances are your emotional nature is upsetting to her.

If you want to make peace, first put down your hatchet.

Answer 4

Oh boy, have I been in a similar situation. I advise you call your father, it sounds as if life can't get worse, I knew mine couldnt. And life improved tremendously when I moved in with my father. You are old enough to tell the courts where you want to live, and they'll listen. I am 15 right now also, and I am still very angry with my mother, all of my family is. It will take a very long time for that anger to dissipate. I am still waiting, and my situation happened about a year ago. I am happier now, because I got away from my source of anger.

If you can not or do not want to live with your father I advise you start reading obsessively, your intelligence will skyrocket and you will immerse yourself in happier worlds where such unfairness does not happen, it is how I coped till I could escape my mother.