WHAT DO I DO ABOUT MY BEST FRIENd?

Question

my best friend is 14 and she is now sexually active i talked to her about everything like pregnancy and why she shouldnt do it she said that if she get pregant shes going to keep the baby and her boyfriend will support her i think the boyfriend is 16 i know he has a job though. I dont want her to reuin her future i really care about my best friend im at the point where i wanna beat her boyfriend azz

Answer 1

"...and her boyfriend will support her i think the boyfriend is 16 i know he has a job though."

Yeah, tell your friend that paper routes and McDonalds won't buy many diapers and d**n little formula.  Kids should not have kids.

Answer 2

well maybe you should tell your friend if she gets pregnat tell her that her life will be over also tell her when her parents find out she'll be in trouble and tell her if she gets pregnant shes going to loose a really good friend and sometimes once a boy gets you pregnant he takes off if hes like that. then how is she going to support the baby. im 14 i want a boyfriend but not a baby.make her think.

Answer 3

its good that your so conserned about your friend. try talking to her about it more and go over all the consequences with her. try to have her get on birth control and if she cant/wont then convince her to use condoms.

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Answer 4

Sounds like your friend needs to go on baby borrowers. It's not easy raising a child. I don't understand why teenage girls think it's easy and they can do it.

Answer 5

You're a really good friend for telling her she shouldn't be doing things like that!  Alot of people would just agree with their friend's choices and not say anything about it.  Soo...I think you're doing the right thing by trying to talk her out of it.  If I were you I would let my mom know so that she could tell your friends mom.  Your friend might get mad at you, but you would've done the right thing and you most definately helped your friend out!  Just continue to do what's right, and let your friend know that you were just trying to help her and that you never want anything bad to happen to her.

Hope I helped!  Good luck!!

Answer 6

punch her in the mouth untill she listens

Answer 7

sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders... dont follow in her foot steps.  maybe it is time to tell your mom so she can tell her mom.  even if the s*x is consentual (they both want to do it) it is still against the law, the could both get in to trouble.

Answer 8

You have done what you can. It's all up to hwer now. Tell her you'll help her or support her with what ever she does. That is all. It is her whos sexually active and she who will face the consiquences and all you can do is help her or be there with her.