WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO??? PLEASEEEE HELPPPPP, Urgent!! Updated?

Question

Im madly, deeply and crazily in love with my teacher! I know this is insane and I've tried to forget about her but she's not getting outta my mind. There wouldn't be a minute where I'd stop thinking about her because she never gets off my mind. There is just something about her eyes. I just melt when I look into them. I don't know what it is. And I think she knows that I like her cus I know I kind make it obvious. I mean come on, I've always felt that teacher student relationships are disgusting. I mean, its disgusting to think about an older person. But she's just so different, she's just so amazing and she's just wonderful. There isn't a minute where I'd stop thinking about her. I know, she's the one. Its not for the physical appearance of hers. She's quite old. ITs just about her eyes/heart. Please don't say its a crush because I know the difference between crush and love. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS? WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Sometimes, I don't understand her..she looks at me like as though I've committed a huge crime.

Sometimes,I feel like she knows what i'm thinking

I have a feeling she tells other teachers about me

No harsh comments please

Answer 1

Maybe you should tell her and get it off your chest. I think she'll tell you why nothing between you two can/will ever happen, as she should. It might just feel better not to be bottling all of this up.

Answer 2

i know is hard the your not able to control what you feel.. and theres nothing wrong with that.. but be realistic, open your eyes.. none of us here can really guide you on what to do in this situation.. it doesnt seem like the teacher feels the same towards you, and the good part is that you already know this... dont fool yourself, your young and your living in the time period where sexuality is a open issue.. go out take your mind off your teacher.. life is to short to dwell on the forbidden. dont do anything that would affect you or her.. love comes and go until you find the right one.

Answer 3

The best advice I have for you is just be honest!  Tell her how you feel, you can't get into trouble for that...although vis versa the teacher would.  I hope this helps!

Answer 4

If you really like her as much as you say that you would not want to risk getting her in any trouble and losing her job.  I think it also depends on if this is high school or college.  In high school than it is really really a touchy subject because your probably under age or just barely of age.  If this is college then you might think about dropping the class. If you drop the class and your not her student anymore than you could consider talking to her about your feelings. Without knowing your age and what kinds of school this is, it is hard to tell you what is a good thing to do.  

Answer 5

Hmm. Interesting scenario. Student teacher relationships are always frowned upon as if they do develop the teacher could lose their job. Erm. A friend of mine had similar feelings for particular male teachers - but she would write odd little fantasy stories about them and other people found them - not good :S unfortunately she was bullied about this, and she couldn't exactly tell school about this because the reason was that she had strong feelings about a member of staff.

I know its hard and harsh, but try to forget about it, I know it probably sound impossible, but its the only way. Sorry if I haven't helped. But I tried!

Hope it works out ok in the end. Good luck I suppose.

Answer 6

so are you a l***o???

thats kinda weired but i guess idk  

Answer 7

I think that you should push these feelings away and focus your attention on something else. She is way too old for you and you'd be surprised that you probably don't have a whole lot in common due to the age difference. Besides, she could never act on this due to her position. Look at it this way, if you really love her, you wouldn't want to put her in a position where she could lose her job and her freedom because this would be highly illegal. I know that its hard, if not impossible, to just turn feelings like this off. Maybe you could try journaling to get some of you feelings out. You would be surprised how much that can help. In the mean time focus on having fun and gaining new experiences,  your young and have all the possibilities in world open to you. It might not be a bad idea to talk to your school counsuler or a psychologist just to help you understand your feelings.