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WHAT IN THE WORLD IS WRONG!!!!!!?

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Last year my mom and dad got a divorce because he was being a control freak. He wouldn't let her go hang with her co-workers cuz he thought that she was dating but she wasnt. My moms to sweet. So any ways ever since they got a divorce hes been getting stricter on me. He even set this dress code about I can only wear dress shirts with a tie and sweaters and skirts. I also have to wear knee socks. On Wednesday, Friday or the weekend I can wear a polo but it has to be tucked in with a belt with normal socks. I have to wear dress shoes no matter what. If I get in trouble or disobey his rules I can't go to my moms house on the weekend. He sent all my normal clothes to my moms house so I won't sneek them in my backpack. If I disobey is dress code he makes me say "follow your rules and not the rest the most important thing is to dress for success." Stupid hunh. And there's more. I can't watch TV, can't listen to my ipod he took it up, can't get on the internet I have to sneak on. I wanted to try out for Volleyball but he said no and signed me up for violin lessons. Now after every week I have to play in front of him. And he knows if I skip a lesson because they tell us week by week what were going to do. He yells at me for misbehaving or skipping lessons. Like one time I went to my friends house for her to teach me how to play the drums instead and he found out so now I can't go over my friends house. Is he a control freak. What do I do?

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  1. he may see your mom in you and is taking it out on you just wait until your 18


  2. He is concerned bcoz the teen girls of today are actually very alarming to our generation. Those low rise jeans, showing parts of one's body that can only be called private. I mean how could you? I am shocked too. The internet is dangerous, the IPOD is distracting, kids have no respect for authority. They are loud and obnoxious. No I think your dad is just concerned. Do what he tells you to do. Dress for Success if good. You are a young lady. Not a stripper. Do not misbehave or skip lessons. Do as you are told. You are under his authority, my dear. Violin lessons are very good for the developing brain. You will learn discipline and also stimulate and develop parts of your brain that I was not able to.

    Listen to your dad and do what he tells you. Youth of today are far too loud, rude, undisciplined, embarrasing and they really should pull their pants up, literally.

    I agree with your dad on this one.


  3. oh thats some shiit...why dont u live with ure mom instead?

    When your mom was there he divided his control freakiness between the two of you. Now you're the only one he can focus it on. If he's the type that gets angry easily, then you might not want to give a "that's why mom divorced you", but let him know that you're unhappy this way. You mentioned your mom was very sweet, is there any way you can live with her?

  4. Your dad is just having problems and taking them out on you. Since he can't control your mom anymore he's trying to control you! The whole thing is crazy if you ask me. I say just sit down and talk to him and see whats going on. I would go stay with my mom if i were you! If you are 16 and up I wouldn't listen to him i would rebel, so he could send me to go stay with my mom or someone else!

  5. When your mom was there he divided his control freakiness between the two of you. Now you're the only one he can focus it on. If he's the type that gets angry easily, then you might not want to give a "that's why mom divorced you", but let him know that you're unhappy this way. You mentioned your mom was very sweet, is there any way you can live with her?

  6. i think your dad needs help this is not normal,why did your mum leave you with a man like that ,i would be worried sick if you were my daughter and i would move heaven and earth to get you away from him.

    i would say get away as soon as possible he will only get worse

  7. Why is it that you are in the custody of your controlling father?

  8. Well, you OBVIOUSLY know that he's a control freak...

    Why don't you go to live with your mom?

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