WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? WOMEN/GIRLS ONLY.?

Question

I'm a pre teen. I come from a good family, background etc... Recently i've started sticking to my room, not going out much, being obsessed with tv, overly emotional and bottling up my emotions. I sometimes randomly cry. I also don't have many friends. Also, i don't know if this is relevant but i do have a period and have had so for about seven months. (No sexual intercouse)

Answer 1

I think that you have hit that stage in your life.  It is completly normal but i suggest you get out today and have some fun.

Answer 2

sorry, i know you said girls/women only, but just that caught my eye, is there anyone you like? try to get a boyfriend that you like and they will help you get through that stage in your life (i dont mean s*x, just support outside of family that you can trust)

Answer 3

are you mostly overly emontional around the time of your period? if so this is very normal.  Usually about 2 days before mine I'll get angry over the smallest things, or cry for absolutely no reason.

Don't worry about not having many friends, as long as you have one or two friends that's fine (you always need someone to vent to).....try to consciously go outside though, get away from the t.v., try sharing more with people.

If you are feeling overly sad though, and don't feel like there's away out of it, or if it's effecting your sleep......you should think about talking to your parents or someone older about it (even a counseler at school)

Answer 4

Well I think there might be a few different reasons for this:

1) Your period makes you highly emotional, maybe you haven't learned how to deal with the hormones yet.

2) Depression, I believe that some pre-teens become depressed when they first get there periods, it's a hormonal change. Ask a doctor about this one.

3) Depression again, only for a different reason. Have you moved recently? Any big changes in your life that have taken away a cushion or stability you used to have? Do you feel motivated to do anything other than lay in bed? Take showers, brush teeth, clean up after yourself? If not I would seriously consult a doctor. I was diagnosed with depression when I moved from one city to another. I had to see a therapist.

Any of these could be causes, or it could be something medical. I would suggest seeing a doctor, they'll be able to give you a professional opinion.

Answer 5

it is probably hormones. i am also a pre-teen. recently i become angry very easily because of hormones. i like to exercise a lot. have fun with friends. try get outside a lot too. hope i helped. good luck! :)

Answer 6

Babe, its called puberty. Dont stress it so much.

Also tho, dont waste these years away. You may feel really moody and upset, it happens to the best of us, but dont let it control who you are and who you want to be.

Go have fun! Enjoy these years! Laugh and make memories. Be the person who you want to be. Be fun and confident and happy, and just live! These moments will NEVER happen again.  

Answer 7

Normal .. you are going through some changes in your life. However try to go out and hang out with friends, you need to try to do that and you will see what difference that will make... instead of staying in your room, thats depressing hun!

Answer 8

see a doctor about your monthly

and  you dont have to have many friends to be happy

friends just keep you busy

find something else to keep you busy something you like to do

Answer 9

your just going thru puberty your maturing and becoming independant

Answer 10

i would say get outside not be obsessed with your tv and not going in your room alot and SEVEN MONTHS FOR YOUR PERIOD?!?!? THATS BAD!

Answer 11

You are totally normal. I can really relate to you, because I have the tendancy to be like that too. Hormones mean you feel over emotional and obsessive (at least it's with tv, not completely wrong crushes as with me). I'm not a really popular girl but I'm happy with the friends I have. I look at other popular girls, who fall out with their friends every other day and have the tendancy to be nasty b*****s. I'd rather be me than them. So nothing is wrong with you m'dear, it is just a phase. Even if it turns out to be quite lengthy - you grow up over a period of around 5 years roughly, though everyone is different. At the times when you are on our period, what you are describing can be worse. But your body will settle down eventually.  

Answer 12

awww hun.... you are growing up!!!!!  Embrace it.  Becoming a woman is the greatest thing in the world!  With the sticking to your room watching tv.... it's laziness.  Everyone has it.  just try to find fun things to do outside that will keep your mind off of the shows you like to watch and being inside all the time.  With the friends... they come and go.... the friends that you have now will be your friends for the rest of your life.  Stick with them.  Once you hit middle school you will find the group you will fit in with.  Right now you feel like you don't belong.  like no one notices you.  It's called a mild case of depression... again comes with becoming a woman!  it'll blow over.  Just keep your head out of the depressing mind sets and you will be fine.  

You will get better and enjoy being outside and having your friends that you like to be around.  give it a little bit.  you'll see!

and with the no s*x... AWESOME!!!!!!!!  stay that way for a long time!  finish school before you think about it.  If you decide to do it early please please please talk to your mom or friends mom or sister or whatever and ask for some protection.  be safe and think safe.

Answer 13

Really, don't stress too much about it. It's fine, you're only going through puberty. Some experience it early on, such as before they become a teenager, and some experience it later on through their teens. Try to get out some more, maybe with friends. You'll feel more like yourself with then, and maybe some of them are going through the same emotions and changes as you are. If you really need some extra support, speak to a woman in your family, or possibly a doctor. It's easier said than done, I know, but pluck up all the courage you can get, and do it. You'll feel a lot better afterwards, honest.

Finally, good luck. I know exactly how you're feeling. (: x

Answer 14

Wheres ur mom sweetie?  These kinds of stuff that u should share with ur mom.  Maybe she can take u 2 see a Dr. 2 find out what going on.  U sound like ur bordering depression, but u need 2 talk 2 ur momma honey, or an aunty or gramma

Answer 15

Your going through the ups and downs of being a teen.  It is normal to a certain point.  You say you don't have many friends, but if you have two or three really good best friends then you don't need 50 acquaintances...trust me.  Talk to your parents and see what they say or find an older teen like 17 or older to look up to and talk with them.  I wouldn't worry, as long as your not suicidal or depressed to the point where you don't care about anyone including yourself.

Answer 16

You could be experiencing a hormonal imbalance. Try talking to your mom and see if she can make you an appointment at the family doctor.