WHAT KIND OF MOTHER WOULD OFFER THEIR 14 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER POT!?

Question

my friend texted me a little bit ago and asked for some "support." she said she was in the car with some people and they were all smoking weed. she used to smoke pot, but after a little intervention i had with her, she eventually stopped (THANK GOD!) anyways, she eventually told me that it was her MOTHER and OLDER SISTER smoking. the thing is, we do not live in a bad area where everything is like screwed up or people are in poverty. we live in a small community where everybody is well off. i know that doesn't really matter but STILL! MY GOD! it's frustrating. what do i say or what do i do? this can't be a good situation for my friend and i'm so worried about her.

Answer 1

well i love smoke pot so if u dont yer a hater n ur friend prolly dont even like u

Answer 2

Get over it_it's just weed.

If your friend didnt lyk it she could of jst got out of the car nd gone for a walk till they were done_unless she is a total spaz or something.

Sorry but if it was really Upsetting her she would of got out.

Yuu should ease up on ppl who do drug too_alot of ppl that are wealthy, popular and live in decent towns  do drugs_yuu would be very suprised at how many people yuu actually no that do it (without any1 knowing about it)

_ there are goin to people that do drugs everywhere yuu go, no matter what town.

Welcome to the real world

Answer 3

That is the worst thing a parent can do...even if it's "just weed" it's still a drug and against the law. The mom should be arrested.

I have plenty friends whose parents smoked/drank with them and now those friends are still living at home (25) and work at a dead end job and make min wage. A parent should want more for their kids then a what they have.

but to answer your question there is really nothing you can say or do just keep encouraging your friend to say no and maybe help her talk to her mom about how she feels.

Answer 4

first off, i just want to say that you cant be addicted to weed.

my best guyfriends mom offered him weed before.

she said at least then she could make sure it wanst laced with anything.

Answer 5

if it was said to you by email or im or text then show the text to the police and your local child protective services.

maybe a phone call into the police and tell them that they are dealing or something and so that they will rad them.

but at lest she has a good friend with you by the sounds of it good for you

wish you the best with this  

Answer 6

The mother and the sister both need to be turned into the police and into DHS.  This young girl does not need to be in that sort of environment.  It is dangerous.  The mother needs to be held accountable for her actions.  Both calls can be made anonymously.

Answer 7

Shut up and go smoke a fatty =-]

Answer 8

Sounds like the girl needs to be protected from her own family.

Many people use the argument that marijuana is is harmless which is both correct and incorrect.  Marijuana is not addictive, it's habit forming and causes damage to developing brains.  The human brain is still developing up to age 26, which is something her mother may not be aware of.  While it may not be damaging the mother's brain, it will damage her daughter's.

Do a search for Child Protective Services in your state and give the 1-800 number to your friend.  Help her help herself.

Good luck!  :-)

Answer 9

Her mother needs to be reported the CPS. I'm not joking either. Call and report her mother. Her and her sister need to be brought up with values and morals. That is very wrong.  

Answer 10

Where you live has nothing to do with having addictions. People of all social classes and income levels can have an addiction to anything. Your friend needs to talk to her mother and sister, and ask them to not smoke around her, if they do not respect that then she should move in with another relative to help her not fall back into her own addiction. Let her know that she can always call and talk to you, or visit with you, if she is feeling like she might "relapse".

If she can't move out, and they continue to smoke infront of her, call child services on her mother.

Support her and be there for her.

Answer 11

maybe a mom that smokes pot

i know TONS of people who smoke pot that they got from their parents...

Answer 12

The answer is, a mother who smokes pot.  People who smoke don't think there is anything wrong with it, because they are stupid.  So they try to get other people to do it with them, so that what they are doing doesn't seem so wrong (peer pressure).  It is really sad but most people who are young, do get it from the parents.  Tell you friend to stay strong and break the cycle.

Answer 13

A bloody awesome mother! Whats her number so I can get some green off her?

Answer 14

I wouldn't worry so much. Support your friend-- tell her she's making the right choice not to smoke and her mom is an idiot. It probably isn't as a big a deal as it seems-- a whole lot of people in all kinds of places and professions smoke pot, which doesn't make it right. She can tell her mom she's not interested anymore and doesn't want to be around it. Ask her what she means when she says support. Or have her talk to a school counselor...or YOU talk to a school counselor or trusted adult because you seem pretty freaked out. Yahoo answers probably isn't the best venue for you.

Who knows why this woman would try to smoke pot with her kid, maybe she thinks its cool and will make them more like friends than mother-daughter...but like I said, its pretty stupid...but no cause for panic.

Answer 15

One word. Criminal!

Answer 16

Hey

I wont criticize you. and well duh you are trying to be a good friend

Some parents think its okay for there kids to smoke if they smoke.

Parents are weird. no parent is perfect. and it isnt right for a parent to do that but they are gonna do what they are gonna do that.

but sorry but i dont want to be rude at all cause i completly know what your talking about but yah know some people are in poverty and screwed uplive in nice neighbor hoods and you probably shouldnt judge the, because we look at them and think like eww but the truth is some of them have more charchter than we ever will.. just saying .. its time that people humble them selves.. its okay im working on that..

and dont worry about your friend.. she wil be okay. just pray

Answer 17

well, let me just ask you this, since it causes a lot of confusion...

did your friend's mother OFFER her pot, or did she say it was ok to smoke it with them?

i live in a country where possession alone will get you death penalty. a lot of my friend's more open-minded parents tell them it is ok to smoke pot around the house or in the car, because that way it is avoided that it's done in public in parks and shopping centers and places like that.

and if she did actually offer her daughter pot, then so be it. i think smoking cigarettes is worse. i wouldnt report anyone, it will just break up the family. tell your friend to tell your mother that she doesnt want to be offered any more marijuana and that she would also appreciate it if her mother didnt drive while under the influence.

Answer 18

First of all, I think your friend is lucky to have someone who cares the way you do.

Second of all, responsible parents model responsible behavior, and that means what is illegal and inappropriate for a teen is irresponsible to provide.  Does this mom have s*x in front of her too?  I mean, there are just some lines you never cross, ever.

I appreciate your predicament.  You don't want to involve authorities, because, frankly, they may remove her from her family to foster care.

So what do you do?

I would say exactly what you are doing, being a close and caring friend, who listens and is compassionate.

However, if there is real danger involved, I would talk to your parents, without giving names, and ask their advice.  Sometimes you just have to take that risk to save someone.

Answer 19

a bad one...

Answer 20

Why is smoking weed such a big deal?

Answer 21

A pathetic excuse for a mom would offer her child pot and let her other children smoke freely in front of her and even tell them to pass it! Just tell your friend that she DOES NOT have to smoke...family or not...its her lungs that are gonna get ruined in the long run so she should be the one who decides if she smokes or not...just hopefully she keeps her head on straight and continues to stay sober!

Answer 22

She could call the authorities and get her mother busted. Course she runs the risk of ending up in a foster home or with grandparents or dad. (BTW where is he?). Tell her to tell her mother she doesn't like it when she smokes pot and not to offer her any anymore or she (your friend) WILL call the police.  

Answer 23

just because mom and sis smoke it does not mean that she has too, I know this one girl her step dad shot up, and stuff it turned her off to drugs thank god