WHAT THE BEST WAY TO TELL YOUR FAMILY YOUR HAVING A BABY?

Question

I'm 21 i should grow up and tell my boyfriend and family but it ain't all that easy believe me.

Answer 1

you could call everyone together and just tell them.

if that is too scary for you. another option  would be to send out cards

saying congratulations on baby.

or tell your b/f  first then both of you tell both families.

Answer 2

I'm assuming that you are not married, which is the real problem with you being pregnant.  Remember, you are still a human being and should not beat yourself up over this.  Okay, maybe you wish you would have not become pregnant.  Or are you glad?  If you aren't glad, then that presents your difficulty.  You probably will find that your parent(s) will respond one of two ways.  They will accept the fact, after a while, even though maybe not immediately.  Or, they will not accept it, which means they don't accept you, being pregnant.  From there, many possibilities exists.  Remember to love yourself through anything that happens.  You may struggle either way, but if you are at peace inside, you will come out a stronger person.  Love life, love yourself, love others and by doing all that, you are showing your inner feelings to be what I think they should be.  However, I'm no different than you in most regards.  So, I can't say how you should feel and I'm not trying to.  I'm merely pointing out that it's easier to go through life peacefully than not.  Good luck with your decisions.  I  hope you can and will be at peace.