WHAT THE HECK! HELP ME!!!?

Question

Ok so today, my bf called me he's like 2 years older than me. I'm 17. so then he called me and said he thought we were read for s*x. gross i know. but i said yes! i was so nervous and scared. so do you think i should do it? if yes, what are some "moves" i can make? idk what to do! 23 points for best answer!

Answer 1

If somebody tells you: "We are ready for s*x" and hasn't asked you, that is not right. Your bf has no right to make that decision for you and the fact that you are nervous and scared is a clear indication that you are definitely not ready. s*x is something couples should arrive at together, in harmony when they are both ready and willing and not because one of the partners wants it badly. Be assertive and tell your bf that you thought about it an you don't feel that at this time you are ready. If he hassles you, you know what he's good for.

Answer 2

Don't ask anyone but yourself... he called 2 tell u? it's still better when it just happens... planning is never exciting...

Answer 3

If you have to ask you are not ready.  Don't allow someone to tell you you are ready for s*x, you are the only person that knows when you are ready.

Answer 4

Well in many states the age of consent is 18. So if you are under 18 then him having s*x with you would be considered statutory rape. That all depends where you live, though. If you aren't ready for s*x, then do not let any guy push you around. It doesn't matter if he is your boyfriend. If he truly cares about you then he will wait if you aren't ready. Please don't let him force you to do anything you don't want to do. You are still very young and you do not have to rush into things.  

Answer 5

if you're scared, don't do it.  that means you're not ready.

Answer 6

wait until your 18 Or at least and def use a condom (no brainier)

but if people find out they might call you a s**t esp if you get prego how long have you been going out ???? will he always love you no matter what