WHO'S YOUR MOST TROUBLESOME IN-LAW ??? DO YOU GET SUPPORT FROM YOUR SPOUSE OVER THE ISSUE ??

Question

In-laws can cause a great deal of consternation. What issues might YOU have and what resolve have you achieved about it ?

Answer 1

Sad to say most troublesome in-law is my own mother for my husband his family is great while mine on the other hand is the pain not only for him but myself as well not to mention when it comes to my kids my solution I x them out and it has been hard but wonderful. So I guess that answered the question about did I support him as well because I did I put my family meaning my kids and my husband before anyone. You have to think would they put you above their family and the people in their home. No so why put them before yours.

Answer 2

My mother in law, she will not have a conversation with me. I have tried and tried and it gets me no where. So I gave up. My husband knows I don't care to be around her and he don't ever make me go. I only see her on Christmas. She will only come over when I am at work. She favors my kids, we have 2 and she favors my son over my daughter. My daughters last b-day, my mother in law come in my house and walked right past my daughter who turned 7, didn't say a word to her. She didn't bring a gift, she said the ATM machine did not work. She works at Walmart, go figure! Me and my husband have been together a total of 15 years, married 11 of those years, and nothing has ever changed.  

Answer 3

d mother in law lol she wanted to know everything and also control everything lol it got solved as i got divorced

Answer 4

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Answer 5

With my current husband, I don't have any issues, except that his dad is now 80, mum 70 and we are facing trying to deal with the nursing home issues, but I don't consider that troublesome, as they are lovely people, and they are so respectful of me.

With my ex, however, thats a whole different story.  My ex's dad used to wait until everyone else was out of the room and then have a go at me about how I wasn't good enough for his son.  One day I got so sick of it, my tolerance just couldn't handle it and I told him I didn't have to put up with his **** and I grabbes our car keys, walked out and told my husband (who was outside admiring the garden with his mum) you either get in the car now, or find your own way home, because I am not putting up with your dad's **** anymore.

My very baffled husband just got in the car and came home with me, but NEVER did he tell his dad it was not ok.  I continued to have to put up with it.

Needless to say, we divorced.

In-laws can be a big cause of divorce if you don't present a united front with these things.

Answer 6

My brother-n-law is awful. I can't believe how bad he treats me and my husband. After my husband divorced his ex wife his brother and her became REALLY good "FRIENDS" and after sleeping with her, he started dating one of her best friends and all still hang out and stuff. He has never took the time to try and get to know me, which hurts my feelings. Not to mention he lives a very "Jerry Springer" style life. My husband told him off a few times. It's sad but we don't speak to my husband's brother at all anymore. I hate it that its like that, but it's best because when he's in our life its nothing but DRAMA.  

Answer 7

I wrote a letter to in laws, and now they don't put their fit in my house.

husband upset? at first yes, but slowly slowly he got used to the habit, and both ways may be hard - he has to go and see them alone - and my side - i have to accept that he does go and have coffee with his mum. In laws especially the boys parents are nothing but trouble, divorce, haterate and trouble. If they stay as they are (difficult, sarcastic, negative comments, finding mistakes in the daughter in law etc, it's either goodbye husband, or goodbye them.)

you are not the only one, so i wish you good luck. Husband will not know the inner feeling as you, so best is be yourself the hero you may have thought a husband can be. Husbands were never heros, they are babies not understand us. We women are stronger than them, and their mothers are strong too. So two strong tefal hit each other, what happens? makes a very loud echo noice. If you hit a tefal on a plate, it breaks. So as you see, we women are strong as tefals, not as fragile plate as men. Keep away and good luck

Answer 8

sisters-in -law think our house is a hotel.   sisters treat my husband like he is their "date" and want all this attention (at least the 3 that could not keep a man for more than a couple of years).  they act like he is their boyfriend.  it's just disgusting.  they want all his attention, call him on the phone want him to take them to disneyworld, on a cruise, to key west, expensive restaurants...., give him marital advice (hello, y'all couldn't keep a husband more than 6 months.....um should he listen to you?).  menopausal, get them all in the room at the same time, they just talk about their bloating and gas and fiber and constipation, their b***s, how sexual they are (at 50 trying to pick up college boys) and horrible nasty gossip about everyone else in the world for hours...stay up all night with their negative c**p;

and they talk ALL THE TIME about other people.  not nice things, they say horrible hateful things about other family members who i love and respect.  

everyone else is awesome, just the sisters (except for one), they are just aggravating.