WHY AM I SCREWED UP??

Question

I hate my Dad ( He went crazy one night i called the police after he smashed my door down and threatened my mom, turns out he had a history.. ) I Hate my Mom (She permanently lies to me about everything - she smokes, she cheated on my dad) I Hate my Nan ( She wants everything to be perfect and clean and gets annoyed when my room isn't in perfect condition) I Hate my Brother ( He hits me hard jumps on me, annoys me all the time and gets me in trouble for it) And that's all of my CLOSE Family. Why Am I So Screwed Up?

Answer 1

You're just full of hate, aren't you? You probably hate everyone on Yahoo too.  

Answer 2

I don't think you're screwed up, you're just caught in the middle.  Your dad is angry and behaving like this because of your mother's behavior and I think Nan is just trying to pretend nothing is wrong.  Your brother is really just being a brother and knowing the chaos going on at home, he's adding to it by getting you in trouble for it because you probably complain about it to your parents who have their own situations going on.  I don't know how old you are but are you old enough to work to get away from the house?  If not, volunteer your time to have some other interaction.  In the meantime, when school starts, please go talk to your school's therapist or your teacher.  That is what they are there for and maybe can help you change your situation or find things to help occupy your time elsewhere.  Good luck.

Answer 3

Maybe its because of all the hate you have inside of you.

Answer 4

I don't know why you may be screwed up but it seems that your situation is. You probably need some outside influence in your life like friends, school, and work.

Answer 5

i ask the question all the time and i really hope theres like a patter like when ur young and u have a screwed up life when u get older it become better but i highly doubt it thats y i dont belive in love cause i hate mii dad hes a drunk and i like and hate mom she lies alot but i  no she cares about me but not too the extint were she would show it which sux and mii older bros r so ****** conttrollin and treat me like there dame dog and mii younger brothers well i try to do the right thing so they dont have a ******* up life like me

Answer 6

Your not screwed up, your family is (no offense). Don't end up like any of them you need a good roll model to keep you in the right direction in life, always tell yourself "I'm NOT gonna end up like them!" Stay in the right road...don't to drugs...be picky on who you date and hand out with....join sports....keep grades your first priority in school!!

Answer 7

You are not screwed up. I analyzed possible answers and here is my best I could think of:

You are NOT screwed up. It sounds to me like you have depression and or anxiety. You need to talk to someone you trust about this. If you are still in school which I am sure you are talk to your school's psychiatrist.

Answer 8

well its a difficult situation to be in....have u ever spoke to them about how you feel about their behaviour,try talking to them and make them understand you all are a family,see this requires lots of patience,its sure v cant change evryone around us but little effort from ur side may do wonders,efforts must be first done by you,be patient,dont be angry oftenly,give love to othrs may be they dnt desrve it but to get bck love u need to do it....handle ur bro wid care,if he is younger than u then there r chances dat ur relationship may improve wid him but it requires concious efforts....and dont be depressed about it as its not all done by you,have good friend circle,social life,keep your mind diverted,concentrate on ur studies,do something meaningful on life,date kinda guys and cheer up,be happy,its not dat difficult to be happy.......life is urs and live it as u want it,make it big.......

Answer 9

you're not screwed up. thats actually pretty normal. :) dont worry.

Answer 10

You need out side help. Seek it as soon as you can.