WHY CAN'T/WON'T I LEARN?!?

Question

I went to community college because that was the easiest choice my counselor suggested. I had to pull out at the end of the semester. Both of them. I need to learn how to drive a car, that is so intimidating but I have no choice. That is just a couple big things, there are other, smaller more personal things as well which I failed like that like hobbies. Do I want to learn for the wrong reasons or not want something so much? Don't just tell me to practice or study or I will open my mouth and shriek like a banshee.

Answer 1

No I'm not going to say study, but if you are not doing enough of it yes it could help.. I think your problem is a broad one, but one that I have gone through, my problem is I am scatter brained. I can almost guarantee that you spend to much time stressing all of these things and wanting to better yourself. Give yourself a break, and make decision for now and not the future. the future is stressful.. hope i help man good luck

                   driving is easy just scary at first

Answer 2

If it is possible for you to entirely switch off from your entire world as you have known it and focus on what you would do if you had a fresh start it might help quite a lot. Switch off from everyone and every thing.

Make your mind a blank canvas and see what the real you actually does want/desire to do.

When you know, go for it & give it all you have got.

In the meantime please google a short piece called Desiderata. I think it might help you just now.   Please feel free to shriek at me if you want to, I have never heard a banshee, whatever that is.

Best wishes for now & your future, UK

Answer 3

in my opinion you should start to learn something REALLY interesting to you, try to concentrate on a single project and gather information, like a thesis. then you could start with other things more "boring" ;)