WHY DO I bother with him?

Question

my ex was this nice guy when we first started dating he was nice caring loving never wanted to argue never would dream of hurting me

now hes not as nice we argue alot he dumps me all the time

the thing is hes only tells me he loves when my friend tells him another guys into me and asks me out sometimes but when i let the other guy he has no chance my ex dumps me again

he said he wants to keep me a secert till when i move to where im usually from

when hes mum was calling him he quickly said mums calling ill call u back bye then hangs up b4 i can even say bye

whats he deal and why do i keep going back to him and cry over him

Answer 1

You keep going back to him because it doesn't occur to you that you can get the nice treatment you deserve from a different guy.

This guy is making a fool of you. He knows you'll cling to him no matter how badly he treats you.

Break it off immediately and don't contact him any more.

Answer 2

He pulled that nice guy c**p so he would win you over.  When he knew you were his, he changed because he didn't have to try as hard.

Answer 3

You aren't bothering him, he's stringing u along. DITCH HIM! you deserve someone who will treat you with respect.

I had a guy leave me cuz he wanted to cheat on me! and i actually loved him! What a LOSER!!!!!!

So, i'd say get over it and cut ALL contact with him. Thats the only way you're gonna get over it. Than after a while, the thought of him will just disgust you.

:)

Answer 4

he's trying to control you he wants to see how far he can go it's time to move on you deserve better then that!!