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WHY DOES HE???? ANSWER Please!!!!!!!1?

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Ok I dated this guy for 8 months.... well after I miscarried... he broke up with me 4 weeks later... then I found out that he's ask out other women in the workplace that we work together. And the girls want to talk to me all the time. the h**l, he break up with ME... but not let me go... he watches me, calls me, texts me, when I'm at work and he said "why aren't I talking to him", Everywhere I go, hes there. I work only weekend and he starting to work only weekends!!!! What can I do... can I tell the boss.... any experiences like this????? We are both 25 years old.. and I think that he did cheat on me the whole time!

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  1. He's a jerk, your better off without him, tell him that he is history and that you don't like him anymore, tell your boss that he's stalking you - which he is doing now - and ask him to put him on a different work schedule from yours, then if he keeps on trying to contact you, then get a TRO and enforce it against him.

    You need to move on with your life and you need to tell him he has no part in it anymore and that you want him to leave you alone, make sure that you have  some witnesses with you when you tell him that, and get that TRO and change your cell phone number while your at it, that way he can't call or text you like he's doing now.


  2. Tell him that you do not wish to be in contact with him any more.  If he continues to harass you at work you have two choices.  You can save the evidence of his harassment and report him or you can go find another job.  Block his telephone number and e-mail address on your personal phones and e-mail accounts.  That way he won't be able to get through to you with the texts and calls.  It really doesn't matter what his motivations are, it is up to you to cut him off completely if you truly don't want him around.  I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage.  I can't even imagine how difficult that must have been.  Just be thankful that you learned his true character through all this and realize that you're better off without him.

  3. this is not the kinda thing you take to your boss tell him that you dont want him around you or talking to you if he get agressive take out a restraining order, i think he wants you to be with you,he wants you to be jealouse but he realise its not working so he is trying to get closer to you

  4. he sounds like a real jerk! why would he break up with you because you had a miscarrage thats real shallow but yes if he doesnt want to be with you than why is he stalking you i would let him know talk to him find out why he is stalking you on the dl if he doesnt want to be with you   do you still have feelings for him? you guys prob just need to talk and tell him how bad he hurt your feeling during that emotional and difficult time in your like and how he just bailed out on you see what he says he obviouly still feels for you?!?!

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