WHY DOES MY MOM HATE ME SO MUCH?

Question

she changed i dont even noe why she used to be nice and lovin now shes a bitg bitchhh! she always talk soo mnay **** about me and acts like i dont have feelings she is drivin me crazy she is nicer to my bro she dosent treat them like how she treats me she calls me such bad names and makes me feel ver hurt and sad and angry in the inside she scream like crazy if i dont clena or w/e i cant take this she acts if im her servant and she never smiles at me she just make me feel sooo sad and sngry in the inside ! im spoo tired of her she yells at me for what she even teels me not to do! WTF she is taking all her anger out on me and i cant stand this one time she beat me soo bad my face looked messed up i hate her soo much and im tired of her bull she id sooo mean i cant stand it she sosent even call me by my name she calls me btich! i feel like i want to jsut hurt her she like to embaress me in front of everyone and make fun of me i am her only girl child my two brother she treats them like there the best children in the world and dont care what they do she still loves them but with me its way diffrent and im soo tired of this i cant take it she gonna drive me crazy one day! she is always attackin my happyness !

Answer 1

oh dear u sound so sad, is there anyone you can talk to, r u old enuf 2 leave home and go and live with someone else?  have you tried telling her how she maks u feel?maybe u could both go 2 family councelling, hope things all work out for u good luck

Answer 2

I feel your pain I know you  feel you are the target of her scorn, there is a reason for the strife. I would try talking to her find out the stuff she thinks you are goofing up and listen to what she is saying without being argumentative she may open up and tell you what is really on her mind. Try to give her as much slack as you possible can, she may not want to talk about everything at once so understand that. I know you can do this  your mother does love you and hope you guys can get this worked out. I wish you the best...    

Answer 3

Ok your mom needs psychological help. Where is your dad? Is there anyone you can live with...like a grandparent? Bc your ma is crazy.

Answer 4

That's terrible. Her behaviour sounds irrational like she's not thinking straight and just acting out of anger. Are you the oldest child?

One possible reason for her behaviour is that she could be at the age (40-45 or so) where she is going through the menopause which causes a woman to go slightly mad as their hormones are all over the place, she could loose her temper and fly off the handle over anything, and not remember a thing of what she said. With this, she probably has stress all day at work, while trying to keep these hormones in check, so that when she gets home, she vents, unfortunately at you. And having no husband means she has no-one to talk to about this. She could be very lonely.

Try and talk to her, maybe at the weekend, or when shes not working and try and stay calm. Say to her 'I don't like it when you say this...or do this.. it really hurts me'. Good luck, I wish you well.

Answer 5

i think you need to tell someone