WHY?! (id be happy if girls only answered this ?)?

Question

Why haven't I had an o****m yet?..... Everytime my boyriend N i do it ..... i dont get one...why is that?

Answer 1

i havent had one yet either and i want one just as bad

Answer 2

Less than 30% of girls can have one through s*x alone.

Try oral or something it might help

Answer 3

i dunno

mabe ur bf shood b better at s*x i guess

Answer 4

some women cannot orgams from intercourse alone, they need clitoral stimulation.  also, a womens sexual peek is in her thrities, so many women dont have them until they get older.   OR maybe your guy just doesnt know how to please you.

Answer 5

Don't worry yourself. A lot of females have this problem.

Hence the reason faking it is so common.

It's probably due to lack of foreplay, or being too worried, or lack of clitoral stimulation.

I think you should inform your boyfriend but make it clear you are not blaming him.

It's good to get to know your own body so you know what works for you.

There could be many issues standing in the way but just realize that it's not just an issue for you and many go through it.

I say you should talk to your boyfriend and you could both come up with ways of how tos pend more time on you to get you prepared, it takes us ladies a bit longer in general :)

Answer 6

I'm right there with you. ;( sadly. that jerk that answered up there ^^^ doesn't understand. he probably has never been in love. ;( But I don't know. I really hope someone has an answer for this as well. I'm concerned because I'm not sure if it's something that is wrong with me or if it's something else.

As for it being a sin, it's not. I believe that God wants us to be happy. It may be written that this is looked down upon, but as long as you love one another and are honest and open about things, this isn't a sin. (But I guess that's just my opinion.)

Answer 7

well then u moight not be enjoying it that much

Answer 8

idk about ur question, sorry, but JESSICA<3, u cant tell someone what to post and not post,sweetie.  

Answer 9

two words: clitoral stimulation

if he can't do it, dump him.

Answer 10

because it seems neither of you know how to sexually satisfy you. If you don't know, how do you expect him to. try some self satisfaction to find out what feels good to you, then have him do it

http://www.talksexwithsue.com/femaleorga...

Answer 11

hes not good

Answer 12

um just to tell ya there is kids on this site i'm 13 and i don't care bu ur question may offend some people so delete it

Answer 13

I read somewhere that only like 5% of women actually get o****m's... I never had one until i met my husband.  Try having him read girly mag's that give s*x advice that's what we do and the s*x is AMAZING!!!

Answer 14

you are thinking about it too much..you have to relax and it will happen when you are comfortable!

Answer 15

As someone else mentioned some women never have an o****m while having s*x, they can only have one during masturbation.  With that said, it  helps greatly if you are experienced in Kegel exercises and practice those daily.  Then do them during s*x and trust me, it will blow you away once you get them down.  If that doesn't work, then it's time to work on someone else's suggestion of clitoral stimulation.  Best of luck.  

Answer 16

When love making don't concentrate on the thought that you must climax,just relax & let yourself go,maybe  a bit of foreplay & stimulation before hand.Try & get your hands on the book The Joy Of Love,this may help you a bit more.Don't be eager & rush through it,making love is a pleasurable experience for both.

Answer 17

You have to relax.

Answer 18

Maybe he doesn't turn you on

Answer 19

your clitoris is not being stimulated enough.

tell him to l**k you out or finger you befoire or after s*x so youget your pleasure too.

hes probably a selfish lover.

so kick him into touch!

i normally m********e myself while im having s*x to get an o****m. that works best i find.

dont just do s*x for his pleasure, make sure you get what you want girl!!

m********e alone to get to know your body so you know how to ask for what you want and how to give yourself good orgasms too.

get to know your body.

Answer 20

you have to let yourself go...youre holding back..can you give yourself one?

Tell your boyfriend what u like and want

s*x is not a "sin" religion made up the word "sin" dont buy into it