WHY is being in love so scary for me?

Question

i am happy when i am not, why is it so scary? how can you overcome such fear and replacing by a more safer approach

Answer 1

your weak heart cant take the loving blood pumping through her so she pumps harded to over come thh scardeness of the live cat

Answer 2

scared of heart break, maybe somewhere in your past you have been betrayed by someone you love your parents and it is now in a sub conscious level as your mind suppresses hurtful events sometimes that is how your mind handles this.  

Answer 3

because we are taught to be independent when you are that way its hard to let someone in