WHY oh WHY can't I get a date????

Question

I am 24 female, African American and I like white guys.

1. I work with all women and old people

2. My school is for working adults so everyone is much older or married.

3. I weigh 182 lbs for 5'6

4. Yes I have a personality, degree, straight teeth, and I don't do the club thing anymore because it just doesn't work out.

5. I have been on a MATCH for like 8 months and no luck or a cute guy will e-mail me once and not again.

6. I AM NOT RUDE! I was raised to be very polite to everyone.

PLEASE BE HONEST!!! OF THE ABOVE I LISTED, what is the reason men are not asking me out or making effort to talk to me?

Answer 1

well I think should  be urself and the right one will come along but I think a lot of white guys prefer skinny girls I notice u put ur weight as 182  

Answer 2

I notice that you said you like white guys. I also like white guys and I am dark skinned and I have never had a problem in this department. The first thing you have to understand is that if a white guy is going for a darker girl he is not going to go for you if you try to 'act white'. Ie - bleached hair, contacts etc. Just like you wouldn't go out with a white guy if he acted black. ie - baggy jeans, ebonics etc.

Do you have female friends that you go out with? I would start by building up a group of single girl friends that you can hang out with, this will mean you are out and about and have more of an opportunity to meet people. You can't expect Mr. Right to come up and knock on your door. You have to make yourself accessible and hang out in the places where you think you might meet someone you like.

Answer 3

maybe you have to be aggressive and ask them out

Answer 4

Because they are probably intimidated by you, don't give up!

lots of guys think that all black women are loud, obnoxious and very opinionated, show them you are different but always be yourself!

and never just settle.

Answer 5

If they get a feeling you want them, they will automatically not want you. This applies to any race... and same with women, when a guy is totally after you- you tend to not care for him!

Answer 6

add a  Yahoo 360 to your account complete with pictures. A man has to see a girl's looks before he gets interested. Its just the way it is.

Answer 7

You sounds good, but you have to get in the gym and lose that weight!