WI DONT KNOW WAT TO DO ANYMORE??? HOW DO I LIVE WITH SOMEBODY THAT DOES NOT WANNA BE MARRIED TO ME ?

Question

I GOT MARRIED TWO DAYS AGO TUESDAY IS THRURSDAY TODAY AND MY WIFE TOLD ME TODAY SHE MADE A COMMITMENT SHE ISNT READY FOR SHE THINKS WE RUSHED AND NOT THAT SHE WONT EVER BE SHE JUST ISNT READY FOR IT RIGHT NOW

I THOUGHT SHE LOVED ME BUT NOW SHE JUST WANTS TO BE AWAY FROM ME IS SHE CHEATTING

HOW DO I DIVORCE IN THREE DAYS OF BEING MARRIED

SHE SAYS SHE ISNT HAPPY THAT SHE LOVES ME BUT SHE JUST WANTS TIME ALONE RIGHT NOW

AND WE JUST SPEND THREE WEEKS AWAY FROM EACH WE WENT ON VACATION THAN I CAME HOME ALONE SHE STAYED WITH HER PARENTS FOR A MIN I THINK SHE JUST WANTED SEE HER EX THAT GOT OUT FROM PRISON NOW I THINK SHE WANTS TO GO BACK THER (TIME ALONE)

Answer 1

Please, don't yell, my head hurts

Answer 2

If you were just married 3 days ago and your wife already wants time alone, she feels she has made a mistake.  It's possible she is seeing her ex, there's really no way to know unless you see her doing it or catch her.  Follow her and see what she's doing then you will know what you should do (such as seek a divorce if she's cheating or leave her alone if she's actually alone).  

Answer 3

Get out of it.Now.

Don't drag yourself down by trying to make this work. She has been honest in admitting to you she made a mistake. sometimes people get carried along by the wedding fever, without looking too closely at what it means.

Use this time away from her to examine your own feelings too, and what were your reasons for marrying.. You obviously can't live with her now.

That is a terrible tragedy, but it happens. In my own social circle, it happened to two of my friends, one male, one female. The man told his wife as they left the church that he had made a mistake.

the female friend left her marriage after three weeks. It happens.

My sympathies are with you.

Answer 4

1.  Please turn off the caps.

2.  You cannot be married if the other person in the relationship does not want to be married.  

If the other person doesn't want the marriage, then there is nothing you can do but let go.  The relationship just won't work with only one person trying.

3.  I suggest you contact an attorney.  Seek a divorce or possibly an annulment.

4.  Read this book:

Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends

by Bruce Fisher (Author)

It is available at amazon.com.

  

Answer 5

if she wants to be with her ex then let her go. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want you. It also maybe that it is scary to make a commitment like that. It is suppose to be forever. Counseling is the only thing that I can suggest. So sorry to hear that things aren't going well. Good luck.

Answer 6

so sorry hun that is crazy...

but within a month of being married, you can get it "annulled". Much easier than getting a divorce. Go to the local Justice of the Peace, and ask them. They can point you in the right direction if that is what you two decide needs to happen

Answer 7

A revolver has six chambers, you know what I'm saying?  Fill 'em up and start unloading, son...

Answer 8

Get an annulment.  With a marriage that short, annulment is what is usually required.

Answer 9

Then let her go.

Sounds like she has some emotional issues, and you're having to take a back seat for her final decision.

How about raising the bar on the kind of woman you're looking for.

And for the love of god, don't ever get involved with anyone that's still longing for an ex.

Answer 10

Don't wait to see what happens next go get an annulment now.