WILL WE EVER BE TOGETHER AGAIN?

Question

THIS IS GONNA BE LONG! I HAVE BEEN WITH THIS GUY FOR 7 MONTHS AND WE WERE TALKING FOR LIKE A YEAR B4 THAT! HE IS MY BEST FRIEND AND I LOVE HIM! WE WERE GOING TRU SOME ISSUES WHERE I STARTED TO FEEL VERY NEGELECTED! AROUND THIS TIME HIS MOM (WHOM DOES NOT LIKE ME) WAS IN TOWN. THIS IS WHEN IT ALL BEGAN! HE WOULD NEVER ANSWER MY CALLS ALWAYS ENDED UP TEXTING ME BACK AND ALWAYS WAS BUSY WITH FRIENDS. IN THE BEGINNG OF THE RELATIONSHIP WE WOULD SEE EACHOTHER EVERYDAY ALL THE TIME! (WE WORK 2GETHER) AND NOW IT WAS LIKE I WAS BEGGING FOR HIS ATTENTION! FINALLY I GOT TIRED OF TRYING TO GUESS WHY HE HAD NO TIME FOR ME! I CHECKED THE PHONE BILL! WHICH I KNOW WAS A BAD THING TO DO FROM MY PART AND I TOLD HIM! HES BEEN TALKING AND TEXTING HIS FRIEND (A GIRL HIS MOM BROUGHT BACK INTO HIS LIFE) EVERYDAY EVERY MORNING AND EVERY NIGHT B4 AND AFTER TALKING TO ME! I DID NOT THINK ANYTHING OF IT BECAUSE I TRUST HIM! BUT THE MATTER OF FACT IS THAT HE WAS TALKING MORE TO HER THAN ME! AFTER THIS THE RELATIONSHIP WAS THE SAME I WOULD SEE HIM AT WORK AND THEN WE WENT OUT A FEW TIME WITH FRIENDS! WE GOT INTO A FEW ARGUEMENTS WHERE HE LAUGH AT ME ON THE PHONE WHILE I CRIED! BECAUSE HE DIDNT HAVE TIME FOR ME. ONE DAY I JUST BLEW UP AND TOLD HIM I WANTED 2 GO ON A BREAK! HE TOOK IT HAS A BREAK UP! A FEW DAYS AFTER THAT HE TEXTS ME SAYING HOW HE DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH ME BUT THAT HE LOVES ME! I TELL HIM I WANT TO BE WITH HIM AND WE NEED TO TALK! I ASK HIM EVERY DAY CAN WE TALK CAN WE MET UP AND NOTHING! THE PART THAT GOT ME CRAZY IS I KNOW HE LOVES ME AND WE FLIRT LIKE NOTHINGS WRONG AT WORK! FOR EXAMPLE HE PLAYS OURS SONG..ETC CALLS ME NICKNAMES... ETC! BUT WE STILL HAVE NOT TALKED ABOUT WHAT WAS SAID OR WHAT HAPPEN BETWEEN US! ITS ALMOST BEEN A MONTH! I WILL NOT GIVE UP ON HIM! BUT I DONT WANT TO BE LIKE A SICK PUPPY AFTER HIM! I WANTED A BREAK BECAUSE I WANTED HIM TO REFELECT ON HOW HE WAS TREATING ME! I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO OR THINK! EVER TIME I POINOUT THAT IM HURT OR THAT HE HURT ME HE SAYS I BROKE UP WITH HIM! I JUST WANT TO SIT AND TALK WITH HIM! WE BOTH TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE ABOUT OR SITUATION BUT I WANT TO KNOW FROM HIM EXACLTY WHAT HES FEELING AND WHAT HE WANTS! NOT TO MENTION I AM 24 AND HE IS 22! AND WE DONT HAVE s*x ! HELP!!!!!!!!! ANY ADVICE?????????????

Answer 1

All I can say is girl, I FEEL YA!  I know exactly wat you're going throuh and PLEEEEEASE take my advice when I tell you to run the other way!! This guy is obviously worried about what his mom thinks, he probably torn between what he's feeling and what makes his mom happy.  You mentioned this other girl was somebody his mom introduced him to, which makes him feel better about since she has his mom's approval and I think you should take it as a HUGE wake-up call that he's speaking to this girl before AND after all your conversations... I know it probably hurts, but your just his backup plan.  He probably likes you and cares for you, but he told you himself hedoesn't want to be with you. Leave him alone, stop giving him your undivided attention and start flirting with somebody else at work!

Answer 2

stop chasing him

if he comes to you and says whats wrong then u know that he cares and thats when u say u wanna talk, if he doesnt wanna talk and just wants to ***** around then forget about him.

the more you chase him and wanna talk and beg, the better he feels..guy hate it when a girl says lets go on a break, and thats probably why hes treatin u like this...explain to him what u meant and clear things up..tell him how it wasnt a break up...

Answer 3

Your second to last sentence explained the problem entirely.