WOMEN! would you tell your best friend to continue to (date) a married man?

Question

Even if he is seeing other women. (which means she accepts her role).

The ulterior motive is for him to help her further her career.

This guy has a lot going for him. He's a musician who is handsome, charismatic, assertive, & successful.

...and he makes this woman happy (when they get together) although he's not committed to her at all. It's just for a good time and s*x. Their is no real future for her. Even crazier thing is she is dating this engineer guy, a really nice guy and he has no idea of her dark side.

If you knew your friend was in this type of situation, would you advise your friend to continue to do something like this, what would be your reasoning?

Women I would really like to know your opinion.

Answer 1

NOOOO!!!  Seriously, I really am against anyone dating a married man.  I actually would say I'm pretty liberal in my sexual convictions.  I have no problems with my friends having one night stands and sleeping around, and have encouraged and aided such behavior upon occasion.  However, this aid ends when their partner is in a committed relationship.  When you get involved with a married guy, you get involved with a lot of other people, (i.e. his wife and children.)  I would strongly advise my girlfriends against such a relationship, particularly because the joy of a **** buddy is that it is a drama free relationship.  You want someone who is as free as you are.  All that baggage is bad for a casual relationship.  Also, what kind of loser cheats on his wife regularly for a casual ****?  

Answer 2

I don't have to read this whole thing to say NO, no dating a married man for any reason.  It insults her intelligence.

Answer 3

i would tell my friend not to get involved with married men.  for me it ruined my life. i was always the 'other girl' and now that im married, im always thinking of what my husband might be doing and thinking to deep into the things he says 'cause i remmeber when the other husbands would lie to their wifes to be with me. also its just not fair to the wife(or kids,if any are involved) and the marriage.