WOuld we be good for each other?

Question

I'm currently recovering(on a good day)/suffering(on a bad day) from an eating disorder very much like anorexia. I am intrested in a boy. He suffers from anorexia and is recovery but I don't think he wants to recover. Would it be OK if we went out?

Answer 1

well... if it's anything like recovering from a drug, which i have to assume it is, i would say no.

how long have you been recovering?  AA/NA suggests a year before you get into a relationship.  And then you should get into a serious conversation with your love interest and let them know where you're at and make sure they're at the same place.

If you're having suffering days, I would wait until you feel stronger.

I know that's not the answer you want to hear, but from one recoverer to another, that's my humble opinion on the situation.

Answer 2

As long as you guys support each other in healing, you'll be great

good luck dear <3

i believe in you :]