WTF is wrong with his p***s: Part 2?? Is he addicted to porno? HELP!!?

Question

Please read my first question for some background: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlY6II3H4saHk_17sh.9wcrD7BR.;_ylv=3?qid=20080902002825AA0T9Iz

But here's the OTHER issue - I've recently discovered that my boyfriend has been on various porno sites - particularly masturbation exhibitionism sites, web cam sites, etc. He has been on/posted on several of these type of sites....this was all before we met. I know this because I googled his name and sure enough his demographics come up on his profiles for these sites.

Does this all tie together??? Is he addicted to porno or showing himself and now he's not able to have normal s*x with me?? HELP!!!!

Answer 1

WELL NO ALL GUYS LIKE PORNO THATS JUST HOW GUYS ARE...AND MAYBE HE PUTS IT ON THE WEB BECAUSE IT GIVES HIM A TRILL RATHER THEN JUST HAVING s*x..BELEIVE I NO I HAVE BEEN THERE BEFORE JUST TRY TO TALK TOO HIM OPENLEY AND ASK HIM IF HE IS SEXUALLY SATISFIED WITH YOU.OR IF HE IS LOOKING FOR A LITTLE MORRE ADVENTURE BELEIVE ME I NO ITS WEIRD IM ONLY SIXTEEN AND I HAVE BEEN DOWN THAT ROAD WITH MY BABYS DAD BUT THEN I JUST STARTED DOING WHAT MAKES HIM HAPPY AND IT WASENT THAT BAD..MAYBE IF U FILL COMFORTBAL TRY WACTHING PORNO WITH HIM THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT...BUT I DONT NO ABOUT **** POSTING IT ON THE INTERNET NOW THAT YOU WILL HAVE TOO TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT..GOOD LUCK JUST TRY IT!!

Answer 2

d**n girl, im sorry but i guess you found yourself chronic masturbater....

It sounds like he just likes the idea  of s*x more then the real thing...

I feel bad for you.

Answer 3

If his p***s goes limp it means he masturbated prior to you touching it.

Answer 4

calm down.

he feels like he can not satisfy you, he has very little real experience with s*x. if he was getting any, he would not be on all those sites.

rather then waiting for him to do everything, try starting it. do everything once, from start to finish.

lie, tell him how great he is, how big he is, no man has every done that to you before. fake an o****m.

it builds confidence.

also, tell him you want to try Viagra. you heard some girls talking about it, you want to try it. dont tell him he needs it.

Viagra will give him an erection for hours. once you get it up, it stays.

it is a lot of fun, it will build his confidence.

edit-i dont believe these answers. i have 100 gigs of p**n on my computer right now. im 48. there are no women complaining about me right now.

p**n is visual stimulation. just like looking at your girlfriend naked.

the difference is, you dont worry about satisfying your p**n.

my god, what year is this?

Answer 5

Some people have a fetish, and some people have a problem.

People with a fetish are turned on by a certain thing; for example, your boyfriend is turned on by masturbation. However, people with a fetish can still enjoy a normal s*x life with or without their kink.

It sounds like your boyfriend has a problem. He *needs* his kink to enjoy s*x, and he can't enjoy s*x without it! He needs to see a s*x therapist.

edit:

Or you could try watching him with a camera or from a distance, like spying on him... He might get aroused by that idea. But if he still can't get aroused any other way and it gets too tiring, I would still suggest a s*x counselor.

Answer 6

lololol his demographics what the ****? how do you know?!

Answer 7

he jerks off to much and comes 2 much that's why.. wich you can't tell him to ease off that lol but try to go maybe a while(couple of days)without s*x and see from there what you can also do if try to make him go in  first and maybe that will work  answer mine    http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind...  

Answer 8

well watching porno movies or mastributing lead to the state he is in and the medicine is so easy is to stop doing that and eat healthy food and he will become a horse dont need to close his evey but just a touch will make him monster belive me :)

Answer 9

A guys p***s is the first part of the center of his universe.

Being on a web sight showing his p***s and MEN and WOMEN like to see his p***s specifically is EVERY MANS DREAM.. Healthy NON shy mans dream.  

He's making money and probably getting laid or making p**n films with girls or even guys.  

Sad but true when a guy gets past his erections all the time phase his p***s/mind needs visual stimulation to get an erection,  Masturbating DOES NOT effect his erection abilities for more then 30 mins MAX.  But he needs good stimulation or some kind of different than lay and play s*x act to get excited.  

The second part of a mans center of the universe is the area a G sting woman's panties covers.

Answer 10

It ain't him! why you gotta expose a brotha?! He's weak, give him Vimax! I haven't tried it but if he can't keep a stiff one in front of you then he's g*y or your just.....

Answer 11

if theres no chance of love with this guy then let him go. youre too much of a great person to be tied down to a guy who cant make love right and shows no interest in trying

Answer 12

This is a serious problem. It happens if you watch too much p**n and eventually that's the only way you can get aroused. It must be a severe case if an actual woman can't turn him on (don't blame yourself, he's mentally messed up). I think the p**n should come to a stop right away. Plus (some how) you have to stop him from jerking off. Eventually the body will have no choice but to become aroused to you and soon enough he will be close enough to 'normal.' But it doesn't work, see a s*x therapist.

Answer 13

   Unless he needs this to get hard, it is just normal for all guys to use some p**n, or lie about it. As long as he don't want to post you I would not let it worry you. If he is in to showing himself well so be it, he thinks someone wants to look, You don't have to go on-line looking him up, just love him. If he needs p**n before being with you then he needs help, otherwise he is normal, sorry it's true.  

Answer 14

Maybe you need to get it on a lot more. So he has no reason to play with himself.

Answer 15

Some people are hyper and they just need more avenues for their release. Also its unfair on your part to snoop in a person's very private life. Also, p**n do provide inexperienced some more info. Even experienced find them invigorating.

All considered he should be able to have normal sexual life and may be with some more innovative techniques. Go ahead have fun.