Waiting for a scorpio?

Question

I am waiting to hear from my ex who happens to be a Scorpio (NOV 17, 1969). Will I hear from him some time soon or should I give up waiting on him? I am a Virgo (9-17-65). Thanks.

Answer 1

Scorpio needs you to be in his line of vision...send him a note, IM or something to remind him you exist...this one is worth the effort.

Answer 2

There is really something about these d**n scorps that have people coming back for more. Well there is a line that has to be drawn if you find your self calling too much and you are exhausted and didnt really do anything that bad ....sorry but you will have to let it go.

This person obviously isnt ready to call you back or maybe will not. Dont waste your time

Cancer female, moon in aries

Answer 3

Scorpio's like to go at their own pace, and do not like to be rushed, if they have, they tend to slack. If this Scorpio seems to be taking a long time, try having more patience. Seen as he's your ex, he knows what he will be coming back too, this may be bad or good, did you dump him, or did he dump you? Its more likely you won't hear from him if you dumped him, because this totally hurts him. Be careful-if he's coming back to you... It might be his stinger prepared for a scorpio's revenge. Take notice of his personality when you used to be together.

Answer 4

As a scorpio, I know how you feel about this situation. It's crazy cause I was in a similar situation with a virgo (although we were never a couple.)

You both have trust issues, and you need to verbalize your feelings better. I know as a Virgo you are always "waiting for something to happen" to validate your fears, but you have to realize that if Scorpio didn't want you in his life, he would have turned to ice(emotionally) long time ago.

Communicate your feelings with him, and leave no doubt in his mind how you feel.

Answer 5

I'm a scorpio woman & I dont date scorpio men for quite a few reasons...we have all the same negative qualities.

Give up on him... he will come around once he realizes your not thinking about him anymore.

Answer 6

Coming from a Scorpio, if he was good to you yet hasn't called back that is weird. Usually Scorpios will give it another try with an ex actually, as long as the circumstances that they separated are not ones to forgive. (Cheating, lying, leaving, etc.) So it is weird he wouldn't answer you back. He probably has bad feelings towards you for some reason, but if you tried contacting him again, and telling him you want to talk again, find out what happened, and do tell him you cared for him and still do, then he should give you the time of day. However, it will be your job to keep the conversation going from there, and a difficult job it will be. But it is possible.

Take it easy, do not rush, do not pry, and be genuinely tender towards him to let him know your feelings are real and true. Because that's most important to a Scorpio is someone earning their trust. Which is also not an easy accomplishment... But like I said, take it slow...

I would try to put him out of your mind though, not because I'm saying he won't come around, but because he will when you least expect it. And continuing to expect it until then will hurt your real life, and your social life, and your friends, and your family, and your work.

No, Scorpios are not usually friendly with Virgos, I won't lie about that. But if he was for even a little while, he might be again in the future.

Much luck to you.

Answer 7

I'm a scorpio myself and have been waiting for my scorpio ex. Supposedly, Uranus is transiting our 11th house of ex lovers, friends, and hopes until November. I'm unfortunately still stuck on my ex. We broke up last November and haven't moved on yet. I'm not putting pressure on him. I guess only time will tell. You can keep waiting...I guess when you no longer can is when you'll know you have moved on...

Answer 8

Patience is the key with Scorpios. Don't hassle him too much, because he doesn't like to be chased; HE is the one to do the chasing. If you suddenly go silent on him, his curiosity will get the better of him and he will end up calling you.

I have been in this situation with a Scorpio before, and this was the advice that was given to me because I was always the one chasing him. Eventually I gave up, and then after 3 weeks, he came running back to me.

Good luck. I know this won't be easy.

Answer 9

No one should ever wait on anyone, live your life, if its meant to be its meant to be.