Waitress was rude and ignorant - should I call and complain about her?

Question

I went out to eat yesterday evening and the waitress was a nosy little snob, she came by the table 4 times to ask if 'everything was ok'. She insinuated that I was underrage when I asked for a beer. Finally she asked my girlfriend if I was "MAKING HER" pay for the meal!

Answer 1

Yeah complain i would be pissed if that happened you must have been embarresed in front of your girlfriend

Answer 2

YES!!  Definitely call and complain.  Management needs to know who is "representing" them.

Answer 3

Yes

Answer 4

u can complain but she wont get in trouble, in fact the mgr wont bring it to her attention to avoid confrontation. when u complain he'll just tell u what u want to hear "im sorry blah blah" & maybe give u a free meal next time. but i wouldnt trust the free meal cuz when i was young i used to spit in ppls food for complaining it happens everywhere. dont mess w/ ppl who habdle ur food they will remember u. next time if u have this problem tell them something to their face get scandalous show them whats up

Answer 5

You should complain about her so others don't have to go through what you did.

Answer 6

When you are treated poorly by an employee........that you are paying by eating there.......YES, I would call and ask to speak to the manager........The manager is also being paid by you for you are patronizing his establishment!!!!  With out customers then there are no jobs or hours are cut way back.

A business's best advertisement is from word of mouth and from satisfied customers returning again and again!!!!

In the first place if she had any doubts about your age for serving alcohol to you,,,,,,,,then it is her duty and by law to be shown a valid ID..........she can not make comments even if she feels she is being cutesy about it.........

She has to present the bill..........it is not for her to comment on who is going to foot the bill........UNLESS.......someone has said I am to get this bill..........I am paying for it........That is a private matter on who pays the bill.......

Some establishments do require their wait staff to engage in conversation with customers.......so the customer feels special and pampered......but you do have to change the question.......After serving a new item to the table she could ask, "How do I like the appetizer...salad.....entree..desert..AW... and the famous BEER!!!!!!!!"  When she notices your beverage or water is low she could ask if you would like a refill........so it sounds like she only knew one question.........Is everything ok!!!!

When talking to the manager try to be objective and not subjective.............meaning don't give your opinion or recommendation...........give the FACTS.......she will be in a whole lot more trouble then........Start from the begininng.....jot down some notes.....arrived at time........greeted..........offered....... soon after each item delivered did the waitress check back and what she said.....tell him how you ordered the beer and the comment the waitress made...............when she presented the bill.......she asked my girlfriend.........Is he making you pay for the meal.........and any other little odd comments she made and why she made them..........

Answer 7

Maybe she was pre..

Live and let live, bro!!

Answer 8

f*****k YES.

I HATE s****. A S S ********* E Z

DONT EVEN HESITATE HOMEZ

Answer 9

You better talk to her that day happened. Tomorrow your angry is gone you cannot complain like what really happened yesterday.

Answer 10

Yea - you need to call and tell the manager. Nothing wrong with doing it. If you don't, someone else hopefully will. You went out to have a good time with your girl and it sounds like this lady kinda ruined it for you.

Answer 11

Are you kidding? I wish I had an attentive waitress that even came by even once after I got my meal because I usually need a refill or something. As for insinuating that you are underage, she would could lose her job if she served a minor so if she carded you get over it. And,if you let your girlfriend pay for the meal then she needs to find a new boyfriend. Have her give me a call you cheapskate.

Answer 12

no, she was just having a bad day!

Answer 13

She's an idiot! Why would someone who relies on tips as a major part of her earnings be such a little *****? She already cut her own throat, but go ahead and call and hope she gets fired. People do not go out to get treated like c**p.

Answer 14

Yeah, totally bust her @ss. Arrogant b*tch.

Answer 15

tough times for the workers== people need their jobs==and what happined to you was worth the laugh ya had to have when she or it asked your girlfeiend if she was gonna pay== if she is as bad as you think, she won't last there, so don't absorbe the negtive karma, by putting her job in jepordy== next time you go back there, when the order comes to your table, and your luck enough to get her as the waitress who brings it== no matter how many at the table== tell her you decided to go with other entries on the menu and she could take thoes back to the kitchen==look very serious=== check out her reply  and then tell her your only kidding== hope for laughter, and if not, just overtip in nickels and dimes=

Answer 16

Don't take much to get you upset. I say forget it. If the restaurant is good go back she might not be there.

Answer 17

You know, no server should 'isinuate' that you are underage.  They should either ASK you for your ID, and they should do so if you are or look under 30, or they should serve you your beer, if you are over 30.  What do you mean by that?  Did she ask you for ID, and you refused to give it to her?  She shouldn't have even served you, then.

"She came by the table  times to ask 'if everything was ok'."  

Well, that's her job, now, isn't it?  

I'm not sure WHO was the rude one, here, but then, I wasn't there, either.

Answer 18

well if it has ticked u off i think you should complain. i would if i was in ur shoes.

Answer 19

Idk its up to you. I didn't see her facial expressions, or hear her tone of voice, so I really woudn't know.

Answer 20

Oh definitely call and complain.. There is no call for rudeness in any public position... customer service is very important for any restaraunt to continue to do business.. and have repeat customers.. RAT HER OUT. She deserves it for ruining your day