Want a friend to help me with pregnancy?

Question

I want a baby really bad... like really bad (im grown with a good job) I am soooo bored without having one...I love babys and seeing pregnant women... and buying baby clothes for friends who are having babys but I want to have my own baby. All my friend who have babys seem to mature morer than I did..and they have kids so when a women come home, the women and man have those little pretty baby face to look at that makes your day bright and non stressful, so I wanna ask one of my guy friends to produce a baby with me(we are reallly close friends) If we do have a baby...do you think we will still be close friends? do you think this is a desperate move for me? Has anyone ever had a baby with a friend or knew someone who did that...if so how is the friends relationship since the pregnancy or baby came into play?

Do you like when your mate rub your stomach and tells you that you look pretty and he likes that youre carrying his baby?

When your guy found out you were pregnant what he do?

Answer 1

That is SO not a good reason to have a baby. They are some of the most stressful things to take care of. Your time is not your own until they start school and then you only have a few hours. I love my kids but after 4 who all had colic and screamed from 8pm - 2am every night for months (3 of them - give or take an hour) and 1 who just screamed constantly I laught at the idea that they are nonstressful. Wait until they get sick and you're up 24-48 hours almost straight and you still have to go to work once they're well enough to return to day care. Trust me when I say wait until you're married.

If you're bored take up a new hobby or get a dog.

Answer 2

Babies are cute and I know what it's like to want one.  However they are a HUGE responsibility so you really have to evaluate why you want one.  Not trying to be mean but think about this child that you would bring into the world.  They are going to need a solid family foundation.  It is best to be married for so many reasons before you have a baby.  If you ask a single mom they can tell you it's hard on your own and until you are married ...you are a single mom even if you have a bf you are single.  This friend that you are close with may stick with you BUT it will change things.  It will become very complicated, what you want is to have a family and that includes a husband to come home and see that baby that you and he created out of love.  Trust me, it's sooo worth that wait.  WE cannot have babies for selfish reasons.  I'm not saying that you are since I don't know you.  Based on what you put, "I am soooo bored with out having one..." is not a good reason.  

I will pray that you will really think this through.  Your future husband will appreciate it too.

Blessings :)

Answer 3

You sound REALLY young. First off if you are wanitng "help" dont expect him to rub your tummy while you are preg. It sounds as if you are going to try and trap him later on with this baby. I hope for his sake he avoids u. You dont have children cuz u are bored.

Answer 4

I suggest you find a happy married couple and help the wife out with her baby, and then take it from there.

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