Want some to marry me but can stay with her girlfriend.

Question

i love someone else. but i want to marry as my parents say.so i want someone who belongs from hindu family (wether gujrati, marvadi,etc.). who can marry me but can live in his own life. but he should be well setteled .

Answer 1

What you want is "The marriage for Convenience". Such a marriage is not based on mutual love or emotional attachment but is done only for financial or social needs.

Well. You can get into such a marriage and also you will find many guys to marry you. But, having extra marital affairs has a lot of social problems and sooner or later both of you will start regretting.

As a marriage brings financial rights and responsibilities too, it will be another problem with time.

What happens when your boyfriend or your husband's girlfriend decide to get married to some other boy or girl?

What you want is like riding blindfolded on a blind and lame horse.  

  

Answer 2

sorry but i don't understand what your asking

Answer 3

How old are you? So you want to get married because your parents want you to, not because you are mentally, emotionally and financially settled yourself. Is marriage a childs play to you?

My friend, you are definately NOT ready to get married. You cant think for yourself (your parents have to do that for you), you love someone else (which means you are just going to take your wife/husband for granted).

Be honest with your parents, tell them you love someone else and want to be with them and be man enough to stand up for your girlfriend.

You dont have the right to marry another person and spoil their life becuse your parents want you to get married....which century are you living in......Leave india for a while, grow up, get an education and a broader perspective on life and then think of marriage.

Dont BE SELFISH. Marriage is a two way street not a playground where ONLY YOUR NEEDS ARE MET....

YOUR A JOKE TO SOCIETY!!!! (sorry to be so blunt....but you need to examine your values and direction in life!!!!!)

Ohh by the way, your question is so confusing...you have a girlfriend and then you say "his own life" & "He should be well settled"....which makes you a woman with a girlfried!!!!!!

DONT GET YOU!!!!

Answer 4

you are setting yourself up for one ugly situation

hindu or not

you cannot marry someone and expect them to just let you have a girlfriend and your own life

what about your brides needs and wants for a happy ife and family?

your parents want you to marry? marry your girlfriend

its 2008 my friend, marry the girl you love, not someone for convenience, for everyones sake