Want to do something romantic for my wife.....?

Question

I want to do something romantic for my wife, but have no clue what. need some advice

Answer 1

Do something crazy like skydiving or rockclimbing for an excitiing experience she'll never forget then go for a quiet dinner way out of town for romance and get deep and meaningful talking and listening,woman love that. Trust me. Then get a room and get dirty.

Answer 2

kosta k - wish my husband had been more like you!!!

Here's the thing I tried to explain to mr. for all these years... I don't really care *what* he would have planned, just that he would have planned something. Put some thought into something.

A few from my wishlist:

Arrange a babysitter and go to a nice restaurant / walk in beautiful surroundings.

Paul Simon came to town... that was a no brainer. I even told him I wanted to go... Point is, fave musician coming in town? Go see them. Barring that, go to a comedy club, or symphony, or ballet (if she likes these things) - anything that YOU thought of that takes her out of her normal routine.

Say something unexpected, sweet, and loving. Just for no reason. Like "honey, you are so beautiful. I'm a lucky man."

Hope these help. Most important? SHE CAN"T PLAN IT. You must think of it and arrange it. It can be complex or simple, but it has to come from you.

hugs and good luck!

Answer 3

More detail please...

Do you have  kids?

What does she like?

Where do you live (approximately)?

How are we supposed to give you ideas when we have nothing to start from?

Best of luck!  :)

Answer 4

In the time you've been married have you heard her comment about things she'd like to do or see one day, anything new she'd like to try or maybe a musical performer she'd love to go to?  Think of something she has said to you in the past and surprise her with the opportunity to enjoy it!  Women like it especially to think you listened well enough to have remembered something we've told you.  If you don't know these things about her it's because you aren't paying attention to your wife, and that's not so good.  I guess what I'm saying is the nice little things spouses do for each other should be borne from the little things that you both should know about each other.  Don't go for the corny cliche things...we all know you do those because you couldn't or didn't put much effort into it..LOL.

Answer 5

I am a wife and I think romantic would be a rose petal bath with candles and wine. Chocolate on the pillow, petals on the sheets (they do stain, good way to remember the occation...) and KY hers and his "because when combined" you know... It wouldn't only be romantic but super s**y...

Answer 6

If you can cook, then make her a really nice dinner and have candles on the table and very soft romantic music in the background. If you can't cook then take her out to dinner somewhere nice. Before you go out to dinner, run her a nice bubble bath and offer to wash her back for her and have a nice red rose on the table for her when she comes out of the tub. You could also leave little love notes around the house for her: eg under or on her pillow. If you were thinking of something romantic on a bigger scale then take her away somewhere cosy for the weekend. Have a spa(room for two) in the room with rose petals on the floor in the bathroom and a bottle of bubbly and two glasses. You won't need anymore help than that.  

Answer 7

What I like is red roses, candle light dinner, nice wine, nice hotel room with a spa in the room. Nice massage. Chocolates. Good lovin'.  

Answer 8

Do what she likes. And if you have kids, get somebody to watch them. Candle lit dinner maybe, who knows?!! Each woman is different.

Answer 9

rent a hot tub, rose petals on the bed, strawberries in chocolate and a bottle of champagne

Answer 10

It all depends on what she likes.  You need to decide what she would like and do something along those lines.

Answer 11

You should plan a nice weekend away or maybe just an "overnight".  Surprise her, make the arrangements for the kids to go to their grandparents or aunt/uncles, find a "bed and breakfast" nearby to take her to.  

Tell her you and the kids are all going somewhere (make it up) that way she will pack for you all.  But when you get home, you drive to the babysitters, drop the kids off ( or have the babysitter show up .. the beginning of the surprise)  Then you two take off alone. Can you take off a few hours early, so if you have to drive somewhere you can get there before dinner?    Be sure to have dinner reservations near the bed and breakfast, but before dinner, go to your room, make sure she has time to have a nice, relaxing bath then go to a nice, romantic dinner.

Back at the room, have a present of a new nightie... go to Victoria's Secret, the girls there will love helping you pick something out.  

Tell the people at the bed and breakfast that you are going to be sleeping in... maybe you could have breakfast served in the room, you set the time.  

If you can't get away for overnight, then take her up in a hot air balloon, then for a lovely dinner.  take her to a spa where you both get massages in your hotel room.  then go for a nice dinner.  Part of the surprise will depend on where you live.. near the ocean?  near the mountains?  have you ever heard her say, " I would really like to.....?

Think hard or maybe ask one of her sisters... tell her to "zip her lips" because it is to be a surprise.  

Answer 12

In complete agreement with Cheryl.  Some people would find a romantic candlelit dinner (cooked by the man) perfect, but if that's not her thing then she wouldn't enjoy it.

A lot of men don't understand that the most romantic thing they can do is listen, and then show thoughtfulness by taking what we say and acting upon that.  Has she said there's something she really wants to do, or would really enjoy?  That would be what you should do to show her a little romance ;)

Answer 13

Well like someone else said it depends on what she likes, but then again ANY generous suprise or romantic offer should or would be appreciated as you took the time to think about her.

Sometimes i'll cater my wife to a full body massage in candle light, a ghettofied jecusi (hot bathtub water and some mr. bubble.)  and then whatever she wanted sexually or just intimately...it would be all her night.  

Or i'd take her out to dinner, something fancy as she's  a little material, or just a nice walk out on the beach near sunset.  

Randomly at times (it's the spontanaeity that counts i think), i'd come with roses, or hav ea card sayin i love her in some poetic manner at her bed....

You should know your wife by now, find out what she likes and then think of the most wild and unusual way to present it.