Want to have another child but....?

Question

Hi everyone I have a bit of a dilema...I am a recent divorcee with two kids but have a boyfriend now who is great...I can not ask for anything more except that I would like to have another child in another yr. or two. However, my wonderful boyfriend is sterile now...he got that taken care of years ago. I always wanted another child when I was married...then everything begin going down hill.

My issue now is that I still desire to have a child. I know I am blessed with two kids ( 8 & 12yrs.) but I really desire to have another one. I know deep down that it may not happen if I stay with the boyfriend I have now....but I don't want to throw away the desire I want. How can I try to convince myself to let the idea of having another child go....

Thanks for any suggestions...

Answer 1

First of all, wait til your married to make any decisions. If you want to "have" the baby then you can go to the sperm bank or ask your self if you can stay with your bf without having one. Or ya'll can adopt together (after marriage).