Want to shake of he boredom in my married life without ruining the budget, any suggestions?(details below)?

Question

I've been too busy lately, returning home exhausted to a wife who had been out of work for a few month now. We don't talk much and our life became quite boring lately. She is so nice and the love of my life and I want to shake of this boredom that is begining to settle in our lives and turning us in a typical silent married couple. Any suggestions for topics to talk about or things to do that would add some spice to our lives ( we are both 30, no children yet, doing well but not rich)

Thanks.

Answer 1

Lady Valantine hit the nail on the head. After 43 years of marriage we still do that. Infact we are going away this weekend. Take her on a real date. Buy her flowers. Tell her you love her.

Answer 2

You are in the wrong category!  Marriage and life can become fairly boring. It goes with the territory.

Answer 3

Go backpacking!  nothing like making love in the wild.

Answer 4

Something that my husband and I used to love to do before we had children was to stay a night at a local hotel.  Sounds funny but when you can go and dine and relax and dirty someone else's sheets without having to clean the mess or make the bed in the morning, it lightens the stress and tightens the bond.  We would hang out in the hot tub or pool, relax in the sauna or whatever was available.  Check around and see what rates are available in your area and see if they offer room service.  Those make it a nice appeal.

Answer 5

you can join weekend dance classes. you will have somethig to look forward to and through the week, you both can practice.

try salsa. it is sensual and it works!