Wanting a man who doesnt love me. Whats going on with me?

Question

After 3 months of dating, he started cheating on me. He always lied about it and it was never a issue i'd question him too much about. I knew he was cheating because my friends saw him a number of times with another woman. I continued with the relationship, without telling him what i know, because i wanted to see the woman he was cheating on me with.

Maybe i also hoped he would see how much i love him & leave the other woman. They've been dating for two months. Finally last week saturday, she found us 'doing it'. It was exactly like one of the scenes in 'Bridget Jone's Diary' (if you know what i mean). She broke up with him on the spot.

Throughout all this, all he cared about was how he was going to fix things with the other girl. I felt happy & relieved that its finally over between them. Problem is, i'm still loving him. Its like, i'm not even mad at him.

Whats going on with me???

Answer 1

You're dating a player girl, ask yourself this question, once you answer it, you will know what to do. Do you want to have a relationship with a guy that is faithful to you, or not?

Answer 2

Thing is - at least she had the self esteem to dump his sorry **** as soon as she found out

You on the other hand continued like nothing happened!

He will respect her more - and respect you less ... and love and respect go together!

Answer 3

I think he really loves you, and will be a great husband and father. just stick with him till the end.

i am just kidding!!!!

wish you luck!!

Answer 4

You're a m*******t.  You enjoy pain.

If that's not true, then you have horrible judgement and will never learn how to be happy.

Answer 5

Don't worry about it--just move on.