Was I abused? This question pertains to my former stepfather.

Question

My "stepfather" used to love to threaten to throw me off bridges, and made me go into deep lakes to fetch an inner tube despite my fear of water. He also used to attempt to make me go on roller coasters. He also beat my legs with a belt until they were bruised for not eating a fish he cleaned. He also broke my mothers arm in front of me, blacked her eye, shattered a mirror over her, and threw her in the snow bleeding. He ripped the phone out of the wall so I had to run to the neighbors house in the snow to call 911. He got a slap on the wrist because he knew the police. I was 8 when he left for good. My mom is my aunt, my real mother is dead. Is this abuse? Should slim like him be allowed to breath?

Answer 1

You were abused. The best way to get back at him is to work hard at not being like him at all, and being successful when you have a family, and treating others with respect.

Answer 2

SOrry you had such a sad life.  that is abuse  

Answer 3

OMG if this isn't abuse what is?

I know a few loved ones who were abused. I know you may never forget but don't lt his sick ways hold you back from loving others.

People like him should be just hung as they have no remorse and are just straight up wicked.

So sorry you went though such pain.x    

Answer 4

I like RaRa's answer, but the others are good, too.  Leave, run and make your life better.  I feel for your aunt and her problems as well.  My first husband (the sperm donor of my only child) dragged me and my newborn down a flight of stairs.

Run and run fast.  Don't look back on what was, but what is now and what will be.

Good luck, darlin'!

Answer 5

Yes, you and your mother were horribly abused.

I've "readjusted" a couple of those dung-piles in my day.  As long as you don't actually kill them, the Statute of Limitations will set you free.

Answer 6

I'm sorry you had to put up with all of that.

Answer 7

You could find him and...."Readjust" his knee caps with a pistol. That will fix his attitude problem.

Answer 8

yes you were abused bad. If that isnt abuse, then there is no such thing. About him knowing the police, that is absolute ****, Shows just how good justice is in the world nowadays.

A bit of his own medicine needs to be thrown back his way...If I were you, id wait till your slightly older, gain a bit of muscle and force, and somehow 'meet him' (i.e. visit, or family or watever possible excuse). Wait for his Idolistic behaviour to show again, then absolutely **** him up. Payback. If you get busted by cops, it was self defence.

Vasta

PS: dont kill him....or you mite be in hot water. And also, let him have the first hit and have witnesses

Answer 9

Yes, I think he needs to take a little trip out behind the woodshed with me.

Answer 10

Oh no, that's not abuse.

And bears don't S**t in the woods, either.

Years ago, I had to be physically restrained from beating the cr@p out of a man who slapped his daughter in front of me. I'm older now and disabled, but I bet I could leave some serious wheelchair tire tracks up and down that boy's rump for what he did to you and your mom.

"Who, me, Officer -- beat that man senseless? Oh please. . .a sweet little old grey-haired lady in a wheelchair? (Tee hee hee.)"

Edit:

bostonianinmo, I could learn to be very fond of you. :-)

Answer 11

Your stepfather is human. I'm sure he also did some good things. He probably also fed you and bought you clothes ect and taught you stuff.