Was I being totally rude?

Question

My friends came over and at first there was just two, I was on the phone and I answered the door. There was like 5 people, it's 11 o'clock, I look like c**p and I'm getting ready to go to bed. So there they are, five people, and one of them says "Oh good are you home alone?" I'm like "Yeah" and they were like cool and they all start to walk in, I'm still on the phone and I'm like "Wait" and they're like "Can we come in?" and I'm like "No, you guys, I'm getting ready to go to bed and I look like shxt" and they looked at me shocked, because everytime they showed up before I let them in. I felt really bad, but I smelled bad too, and I looked bad, and my hair was oily and I REALLY need to take a shower and I'm so fxcking tired. They looked at me like I was crazy, my friend was having a conversation with me on the phone and it was right in the middle of her story, so I just said "Thanks guys, bye!" And I shut the door. I honestly sounded like a *****, and they've always been fun to hang out with, and they all showed up at my door and everything. Do you think I should've just let them in? Do you think they hate me? What do you think they're doing, do you think they're talking shxt about me? Or thinking shxt about me?

Answer 1

they should know that its rude of them to just drop by and expect you to be okay with them just walkin right in. they should respect you and that you need your own time sometimes. how would they feel? you did the right thing. now they wont stomp all over you.  

Answer 2

um how old r u 10 i think they are alittle bit more mature than that hey whatever you wanted a night by yourself explain it to them tommrow and im sure they will understand but you must not have a whole h**l alot of self confidence if your wondering if they hate u or are talking **** bout you