Was I overreacting to cut her off?

Question

Recently, my best friend's roommate asked me out on a date. I am not interested because I feel that he is shallow, rude, and inconsiderate towards others. Although I really don't like him, I tried to be nice when I told him no. I told him that I like someone else (I do) and that I just wasn't interested. Since then, my best friend has stopped talking to me. She totally ignores me. Yesterday I noticed that she removed me from her top myspace friends and she put up some status that said "Yes there does come a day when the walls have to go back up." I think this is very immature and I'm tired of dealing with it, so I deleted her from everything (myspace, facebook, my phone, msn, etc.) I just don't want to deal with this. We are 25 and she's acting like a 13 year old. Am I overreacting? I tried talking to her about this but she just acts like she doesn't know what I'm talking about and continues her behavior.

Answer 1

well u both are acting immature.  try to talk to her and dont let her off with just a i dont know what ur talking about.  if she keeps acting like this then just stop trying.  also apologize for taking her off of everything.

Answer 2

Your calling her immature, but you both are! You are acting like your 10 deleting her from everything! Try talking to her in person and act like you actually 25...

And maybe theres something else to it, i mean she wouldnt just stop talking to you because you said no to going out with her roommate...

Answer 3

yes, you overreacted.  Sounds like she did the same thing if she was really responding to your refusing a date with her roommate.

This person might not really be a Best Friend if you think about it a minute.  Doesn't seem like she checked in with you before just cutting you out of her life.  Best friends don't do that.

I think this person is one you should let go on her way.  If you somehow patched this up, problems would come up in the future because of how she treats others when they displease her.  Look for someone who believes in talking things out to keep a relationship going.

Answer 4

You're not overreacting but you two are being a little immature for your age. You said that she deleted you from her tops & you called that immature, well you did the same thing and deleted her from everywhere. If you really feel this way then just talk to her about it and if she doesn't listen to you and doesn't get where you're coming from the try to slowly get away from her. Stick with your BEST friends and the ones who treat you with respect