Ok, here is the situation. My husband was in a wedding this weekend for one of his nephews (nephew is 27, husband is 33.) ok, here is the thing. After the ceremony, I walk out of the church to see a party bus! Whoo hoo is what I thought, party time on the bus! Well, I asked the wives of the other groomsmen (groomsmen were all married, all the bridesmaids were single) if they were going on the bus. They didn 't know if we were invited. Well, I said, the bus holds 31 people. There were 14 in the wedding party. My husband is in the wedding party so I am invited. Plus this girl is my new neice. So, I get on the bus...Well this is when the problem starts. My wonderful new neice stared me down like I was the devil. She didn't want me on the bus. hummmm....Well here were my thoughts...I traveled to be there, spent 2 nights in a hotel. Left daughter with a babysitter for two days. Kenneled my dogs, spent about $1000.00 on this wedding (between hotel rooms, gas, gifts, tux rental, food) I was going on the bus. They were going for a two hour bar hop. I was not about to leave my husband with all single bridesmaids and go sit in the hotel for two hours alone (I just have a level of expections for married men, not just mine. I don't believe it is appropriate bahavior to be out drinking with a bunch of women without your wife. But, honestly, that was not the issue. I wanted to have fun too)
So come to find out that she didn't want the wives on the bus and is now upset with us. I feel that there should have been no reason we couldn't go. WE are family, we came to celebrate with them. It is not like I was just a stranger hopping on a party bus. So we are not getting off to a good start. I know it was the brides day, but do you think that she went to far? Or am I being completely stupid?
What my husband thought- My husband was also very angry. He knew how much time and effort we had put into being there for him. He told the goom that if I wanted to go on the bus, I was going...otherwise he would hang with me.
About the insecurity with my hubby. I trust him with all my heart believe it or not. I know he would not do anything with anyone but me. The thing I don't like is when girls, that are young , not married , and don't understand the whole marrige thing make inappropriate actions with a married man. That is what I don't like. I don't worry about, I just hate it!
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