Was it a hard decision to take to get married?

Question

And is it? What are the major points to take into consideration? Will Love not fade away or just lose its glow?

Answer 1

There isn't supposed to be a hard decision to take to get married...you just know you want to get married when your man comes along, if you stop and think then it's not right, something isn't adding up.

Major considerations??? I suppose that varies with pple, loke he lives ina country and you live in another country or different religion or living with his parents (lol)...

I think Love changes after you get married, it doesn't fade away but it doesn't stay the same romantic love, it matures as your couple matures too...the love you have for each other will start to include your children and life makes it sometimes harder on a certain couple to survive, but that has nothing to do with not being love, I think it has to do with knowing how to compromise and share adn communicate.

Answer 2

No, definitely not, I was absolutely sure that the person was the right one for me! If marrying the right person it is the most wonderful gift on earth. You should be absolutely sure that the person is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with and the love should be unconditional and not selfish at all. That person should also be more than just a lover and considered as your soulmate or best friend. The one you would like to share your joys and sorrows with. Marriage is also something that constantly needs working on and if you put in real effort the love will not fade or loose it's glow but rather grow deeper every day. But indeed: be wise in your decision and only marry someone when you are 110% sure.

Answer 3

actually it was very easy this time ..

i just asked and she agreed =D

Answer 4

First, welcome back!

They say marriages are made in heaven!

But if one is patient and cautious enough to wait till he/she finds true love then I'll say the bond should strengthen rather than fade away.

My example is my parents, they were together and happily married till their death apart them and I am sure others will also agree, who married long enough : )

Answer 5

Wasnt difficult decision to get married, but its a difficult adjustment once you are married!