Was it reaally that rude?? please help??

Question

this was on saturday and my aunt and my mom were practicing for a performance... since i had to keep on playing the song over and over again i was soo aannoyed and sso tired...there wre kids also oat my house and they were making soo much noise....then my uncle called to pick up hiss.... he said :hello

i said:hi, im busy, can u call back later and hung on him without him saying anything.

then when he came he was all like that soo rude and i was im sorry but i was busy and soo annoyed.... he was like yea but u should have waited until i said someething.. and he just kept on asking why i hung up on him and i started feeling nervous cuz he never spoke to me like that and soo i just said that i felt like it and he was like so ur acting smart rite? and the he left!

today he called again cuz he needed to talk to my mom but she wasnt home. so when we were done talking he brought up that situation again and was like im your uncle and u should respect me and u should have dome that. soo i told him again that i was busy...then it ended.

but i have to meet him again on friday and i dont now how to face him and what if he brings up the subject again in front of eevryone.. what am i supposd to say???

pleaseeeee help me!!!!!

Answer 1

that was kinda rude.

but its not personal or anythin hes taken it too far. [:

Answer 2

if he does explain to people that you where really buzy and that you are truely sorry maybe them people will see that and understand

Answer 3

Yes, I do think you were rude and disrespectful to do that. Imagine if you were the one calling him and he did that to you. How would you feel? I understand that you were irritated but try to understand that first of all, your uncle had nothing to do with that situation so he didn't deserve that and while you are irritated, life does continue on whether you are happy or not. When you are irritated or angry try to find a way to calm yourself down so this doesnt happen.

Now, its good that you can see some fault in what you did. I think you should apologize again to your uncle (do not give any more excuses) let him know that you understand that you were wrong and you will not let it happen again. Your uncle should be able to let it go then. Now, if he doesnt and he continues to bring it up, I would politely remind him that you apologized and it wont happen again but to please not keep rubbing it in your face.

It's ok, this is part of growing up. Learn from it and move on.  

Answer 4

Sounds like you both had a bad experience.

Just start with Hello Uncle ____, how are you ? and nothing more.

Then when he is done,

"It was so nice to talk to you, have a nice day."

Being the nice one isn't easy, but sometimes the "Grown-ups' need to vent. You will be doing good for both of you and that's what family is about.

Answer 5

I have done the exact same thing as you before... but I think he is over reacting. Dont worry. I would just make an appology card or something. Explain to him how sorry you are and it will all be fine. And btw, It was kinda rude but I would have understood.

Answer 6

I THINK UR UNCLE IS REALLY OVERREACTING SERIOUSLY! U ALREADY APOLIGIZED AND EXPLAINED WHY U DID THAT.. I WOULD SAY IGNORE HIM.. U HAVE ALREADY DONE EVERYHING

Answer 7

he apparently is touchy! I don't think that's rude. I do it all of the time to my sister, coworkers, etc. My sister thinks it's rude and so do my coworkers, but then again I'm from NY and everyone that isn't a New Yorker thinks Im rude. Just apologize and tell him "you really have to understand that I was really busy Im sorry if you felt that I disrespected you but I am sure there were times were you felt the same." and then say something like "you know that I would never intentionally disrespect you, I love you!" good luck!

Many think it's rude I just don't because I am the same way! I don't have the time to give people a mushy mushy bye bye with my hectic schedule!

Answer 8

what you need to do is apologize.  he is your uncel--he is your elder and you should have given him a little more respect than that.  if you were my child i would have slapped the **** outta you.  people will say that that is harsh but thats how i was raised and im doing quite well.   all my svhool age children are honor roll students and my oldest is doing well also.  i have a sneaking suspicion that corporal punish wasnt used in your house.  you should apollogize to your uncle and remember who you are tallking to when you speak.