Was it wrong we got back together?

Question

I've been on/off with my boyfriend for a whole year, when we get into arguments we can both say mean things to each other but when I stopped he continued, he's called me a b*tch,s**t said he was going to cheat on me and said he hated me and when we were on the phone he said he was more miserable without me then with me. We recently got back together and we've talked once since we've gotten back together, he continues to talk to me whenever he feels the need and it hurts a lot. Was this a mistake?

Answer 1

Girl all i can say is drop him like a FLY... you need someone that you can rely on, who will be faithful  and respect at all times..

Answer 2

It sounds like you know this was a mistake... go with your gut girl.

Life's too short to put up with that c**p.

Answer 3

take is from someone whos been there

its going to end.

dont delay it or take the abuse

its not worth it.

Answer 4

I think its obvious that it wasn't a good idea and you know that as well. What was your motivation for giving it another shot..again? You do realize that staying in a relationship like this hurts your self-esteem and can cause a lot of emotional damage as well if you let it.

Answer 5

This isn't his problem,

Its yours, for having such low self esteem to stay with a guy who calls you those kind of things.

My boyfriend and I fight, but if he ever called me the things you listed, he would be gone like that.

A relationship is nothing without mutual respect.

Answer 6

yes you should stay apart

Answer 7

Time to move on, hun.

Life's too short to go on like that.

You'll find someone else eventually.

Answer 8

thats terrible. i think it's a mistake.  

Answer 9

no amount of abuse is worth it and yes this is verbal abuse

get out well you can it maybe turn physical